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If a female did not say “no” to sex, then it’s a yes by default
Many men are getting falsely accused of rape now just because females feel violated despite the fact that they haven’t communicated properly. If you didn’t say no to sex, it’s your fault if a man put his penis in your vagina even if you didn’t want it. After all, how is he supposed to know?
If you drank alcohol and claimed to be too drunk to say no, you still consented because you chose to drink in the first place.
If a guy grabs your ass and you didn’t say no, then it’s not really sexual assault.
I don’t care if you are shy. Or your body shuts down when you are afraid. In fact, if you freeze instead of running/fighting in dangerous situations, that’s a mental illness and you need professional help, but don’t blame men for your mental disorders because it’s not their fault that they didn’t know you didn’t want it.
Even if a man said that he will kill your daughter if you won’t fuck him, it’s still not rape to have sex with him. You chose to pay the sex ransom. Now take responsibility.
Just because you felt violated doesn’t mean you were raped. Regret isn’t rape. Rape isn’t based on how you feel. If you didn’t communicate properly, it’s on you and the guy shouldn’t be punished for not knowing since it’s not his fault. If you have trouble standing up to yourself then get help, but don’t blame the guy. It’s your problem, not his.