This is a more extreme version of the “All Girls like Bad Boys” complaint that nerdy high school students make when the pretty girl won’t take them to the senior prom. Now, I’ve never been a female, but I don’t think that most of them specifically look for assholes; they probably want men who are physically attractive, smart, and confident, never noticing that some of them are assholes. It’s the same for many guys. In fact, I’ve fallen for quite a few “mean” women, simply because they were really attractive, confident, and independent, even though they didn’t always have the best attitudes. While I was always too sane to even consider doing any of the heinous shit that you extol, I also acted like a sarcastic, uncaring douchebag to emotionally distance myself from one woman I never had a chance with, and she *surprisingly* didn’t fall for me; frankly, she absolutely hated me for a while, until I finally accepted my own feelings, dropped the abrasive facade, and became nice enough for her to tolerate as a friend.
Now, there are some mentally ill women who exclusively seek out abusive assholes due to parental issues, but they aren’t the norm. Some psychotic women even fetishize violent criminals, but they are part of a very small minority of hybristophilia-sufferers. Why would any mentally healthy man want either of those women?
On a closing note, the bitter “nice guys” who make this complaint aren’t much better than the assholes they demonize- all of your obscenely insane posts about women, children, and the “evil” Western World say that much about you. If you could objectively read through your own comments on this site, you’d realize that you’re having women troubles because you think like a monstrous thug. You yourself refute the notion that most women specifically go after assholes.
