Theory Inter-appearance dating is the problem (and how it creates incels and feminists)

Some people say interracial dating is the problem, others say it's interage dating.
The real problem is inter-appearance dating/sex (dating/fucking people in a different looks rank than you).

Normie and ugly women all sleep with Chad and think that's how attractive they are as well.
This makes it so they end rejecting all uglier males and thinking they deserve the Chad.
When Chad won't commit to them, they'll end up being with some normie male who she doesn't want and is only with him because she wants a family and kids.

Meanwhile, femcel women who are below normie level just stick to being alone because they can't get with even a normie to commit to them, so they become feminists and man haters.
They don't want to be with incel males because we are too ugly for them, and high tier incel males don't want to be with them because they are ugly but also have been blown out by many Chads and ignored incels while they were young.

The free sexual marketplace is a place that naturally breeds incels and feminists.
I see no way around controlling for the generation of more of us in the future unless we ban males and females from being able to mate with people in a different looks ranking than them.
This forced assortative mating will make it so everyone who is uglier will have a chance at a life long partnership with one another, whether man or woman.