What makes it worse, telling an incel to get help will only enrage him/her further.

Actually, this part isn't as unreasonable. What leftists mean by "getting help" is therapy, which is incredibly dangerous. Telling a therapist in Western feminist shitholes about these problems is extremely dangerous. I've seen shrinks who write on this very site talking shit about incels and spouting leftist garbage.

I have a simple test for a shrink to pass if you want him working with you - tell him to harm a local feminist of your own choosing (or one among the several that are offered if you want to give them an option). If they don't wanna do it ditch them right away.