In what way is it kind-hearted, compassionate and forgiving, to wish rape and/or murder on all women in the world, because two or three women told you politely that they were not interested in dating at the moment?
All seven of my nearest colleagues, my husband, my brothers, my brothers-in-law, my father, all fit the description, and all are in steady, longstanding relationships with equally kind-hearted, compassionate and forgiving women.
Some of those colleagues, who live near me, would come to my aid without a moment’s hesitation, if I called them in the middle of the night (they’d know that I wouldn’t call them that late if I had any other options), and none of them would EXPECT anything in return. I would be super-grateful of course, and bake them a cake or pay for a lunch or two, as THAT is how normal people repay favors.
Sure, I have one or two colleagues that fit the description and have never had a girlfriend, too. But they are STILL kind-hearted, compassionate and forgiving, and relatively happy and easy-going. One of them is around 60. Another colleague, who’s also around 60, has been single for a long-long time, but he does have a child who’s around 40, so he must have had a gf once. Whether people have had sex or not, is none of my business.
Loud, obnoxious, douche-bag assholes who got laid a lot? Nope, can’t think of any. Those assholes were mostly avoided or ignored. All the women I know prefer the good guys.
Most loud, obnoxious and douche-bag assholes online, are so-called “incels”.