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RE: Is being non passing ok?

Being Non-passing is ok provided you stay closeted and present as a man, do not intrude in womens' spaces, and do not reveal or acknowledge your Trans status in public spaces where other Cis or Trans people can see you physically.

It sounds like you're already doing that, so you're fine.

I know people like me make everyone of us look bad, they make other trans girls sad and self conscious asking themselves if this is what they really look like.

Only if you actively present. If you boymode permanently none of this applies as you're simply read as cis male and not as a TiM.

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