[Serious] One of our major problems is that people use outliers to counter our problem without realising WHY they are outliers

I'm sure you've all been told this garbage before - "Well look at John he has a girlfriend and is nothing special to look at". The fact that John is actually either a full blown thug, has inherited his dad's company, is a full blown cuck that will bow down to a woman's every need or became a professional clown just to touch a girl who is 3 points below him looks wise is conveniently left out.

And people use these guys as examples of our problem either not existing or not being as bad. Embarrassing.