"I grew up hearing that lesbians need to unlearn their genital fetish or they’re bad people."
Really?
"I grew up hearing that “TERFs” are an evil subhuman sect of the population that deserves only the worst because their thoughts and words “literally kill trans women”."
Hey, when you spread hatred, lies, and bigotry don't be surprized when people have a poor opinion of you. You could just start minding your own business and stop caring how other people live their lives.
"I grew up being taught to never doubt that trans women are women and trans men are men, full stop."
Which is correct.
"That I couldn’t even call them their correct sex because that would be literal violence."
You mean incorrect gender. Well, I wouldn't go so far as to call it literal violence, but it does make you a huge asshole.
"I never self described as cis, never put pronouns in my bios, never questioned my “gender identity”, hell I never thought much of it at all. Like I don’t even have one I’m just female."
You know why you never thought about your gender identity? Because it matches the sex you were assigned at birth. Lucky you. I wish I had the luxury of being so ignorant. You're just female. But what if nobody else believed that to be the case. How would you feel then?
"On the other hand though I have had many friends and knew tons of people who drank the TRA kool-aid, bottoms up with not a drop to spare. Every single one of them is suffering and mentally ill in some way, desperately in need of a positive life change and real help and coping skills, but what they got instead was all they knew. Fuck the trans cult."
Lemme guess, you know that they're mentally ill because only a crazy person thinks treating trans people with respect is a good thing? They're probably suffering because they have to deal with your bullshit. Hey, fuck the TERF cult.
"It’s honestly jarring how much emphasis they have on hating feminists and lesbians but generally ignore misogynistic/oppressive men."
Transgender people don't hate feminists and lesbians. Plenty of us *are* feminists or lesbians (I'm a feminist non-lesbian transwoman myself). You don't speak for all feminists or all lesbians. And we don't ignore misogynistic men. The only reason it seems like trans people target you more is because you're the one slinging shit our way first.
"And how there is no equivalent for the whole anti terf phenomenon for trans men. Reflecting on this was my peak trans moment."
Maybe it's because transphobic assholes mostly seem to forget that transmen even exist, and instead focus all their attention on those horrible "men in dresses who want to leer at real women getting dressed in the locker room".
"Sorry this is barely readable lol just wanted to get my thoughts out there and maybe others will feel the same and even if not, I’m interested to hear your opinion on what I’m thinking."
It's stupid and evil.