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Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Dear Elon - Welcome to the World's Worst Club

Since this essay was originally published in June of 2022, we can welcome several other celebrities with trans-identified kids to the club including, but not limited to: Charlize Theron, Robert De Niro, Dwyane Wade & Gabrielle Union, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, Liev Schreiber and Naomi Watts. What is it about chemically castrating children that is so appealing to so many parents? PITT parents would like to understand.

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Welcome. Welcome to the sanity portal. There is only one way into this and that is almost always through children - usually your own. It was only a matter of time before we started to hear about more children, and more high profile parents like you. Not "adult trans offspring of famous people" but your children - kids, youths, young adults with healthy bodies.

And so, knowing that you are a science-based thinker and, having heard some interviews and having seen you dance, I fully expect you to nerd out and apply your scientific critical appraisal skills to this topic of "trans kids". And if that is the case, then I am hoping you look beyond the more obvious 'expertise' that will throw itself in your path.

distressed parent #transphobia #conspiracy pittparents.com

[Replying to the parent of a deceased transgender son]

And how utterly awful for your sons to eulogize your daughter with the incorrect pronouns. The "trans" horror preys on the family in insidious gut-wrenching ways. It's prompted me to consider the possibility of an outside evil force. Or maybe, humans just can be stupid and terrible. My bitterness is another aspect of what the "trans" horror does to people.

Susan in Kansas #transphobia pittparents.com

I saw a Seinfeld “behind the scenes” interview on dvd where Jerry is wearing a pink/blue/white polo shirt years before trans anything. So jarring to me. It was just a regular shirt but now the colors and pattern are “triggering”. Also my grandson came over with a button toy I. Rainbow colors and it made me flinch. He’s a 2year old. He should be playing with a rainbow, but this insidious ideology is in my brain.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

I miss your carefree laughter, the one in the natural, male timbre you have practiced to banish, and vanquished with the help of wrong-sex hormones.

I miss being able to look at you without cringing. Your artificially hairless face, long unruly hair, clothing that helps you flaunt the bodily effects of hormones that were never supposed to be taken for life - and by males - are stark reminders that you have rejected what Nature bestowed upon you.

I miss being free to call you by the name we so lovingly gave you; the classic essence of it, the maleness of it, the meaning of it; the name you threw away in a process that took a signature and a postage stamp. The name that defined you more than just superficially. The name that represents your true identity - no matter what you, and your blind supporters may believe.

And because I am not free to use the name you were born with…I miss calling you by a name that isn’t an endearment - the default I must resort to using, and have, for the past five years.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

My life will never be the same because my heart now has a huge void in it, and it aches. This cult affected my nephew, and the ripple effect tore through my entire family. This evil cult steals the identities of our loved ones, changes them, devours them. Holidays, birthdays, and special occasions are brutal to the families left behind. There is no comfort, no peace. The emptiness is so prevalent it is suffocating.

From an accident 10 months ago, I am handicapped so I had groceries delivered to my home the other day and the delivery person was a trans MTF. I was not shocked, just heavy-hearted. This young man, who was trying his best to look and act like a female, had shoulder length hair pulled back into a ponytail, small breasts protruded through his colorful shirt, and he wore light pink nail polish. I wanted to say something – but what could I possibly say?

PITT Parents #transphobia #pratt pittparents.com

A Scene from “Planet Unhinged”

(This isn’t a real play, it’s one scene that I formulated in my mind to try to wrap my head around the absurdity of what is going on in our world. I’m sure you could think of other scenes.)

Mom, So-and-So is coming over tomorrow. Just so you know, she is trans-disabled. I told her she’d be safe here.”

“What do you mean? Is she actually disabled? What’s ‘trans-disabled’?”

“MOM! Don’t be so ignorant! She’s having her leg removed next month. She’s always known she was only supposed to have one leg but right now she still has both.”

“Good lord! Is her leg okay? Is she sick? Does she have cancer or something?”

“Yes, it’s fine. Geez. She just doesn’t identify as a person with two legs. Appendages exist on a spectrum, you know. Not everyone has two legs.” (Daughter rolls eyes sarcastically.)

“So, what do we have to do?”

“Well, she’ll need to park in the handicapped spot in front of our building. And right now she does have both legs, but she uses a wheelchair, like I said she’s having the left one removed next month, so we’ll need to arrange the furniture so she can get around the living room in her chair. You just need to kind of act like she only has one leg.”

“Can she walk?”

Daughter gasps.

“How can you even ask me that? I mean, how can you be so exclusionary and hateful?”

“I’m just trying to figure this out. Are her parents okay with this?”

“Well, I guess initially they were really upset but then she had a suicide attempt because she was so upset that nobody would affirm her trans-disabled identity, and the doctors finally talked some sense into them while she was in the hospital. She needs to be able to speak her truth, and if her parents can’t accept that she’ll just need to live somewhere else so she can get her surgery.”

“What if she changes her mind in a few years, and thinks she made a mistake by cutting her leg off?”

“MOM! Seriously! It’s called a ‘delimbination,’ not ‘cutting her leg off.’ That’s so offensive! And she’s not going to regret it. Besides, if she does, she can always get a prosthetic leg. It’s pretty much the same thing.”


Mom First #transphobia pittparents.com

Elon could end this, he hates it so much that it took his son away. How is it that he hasn’t donated millions to stop this? He hasn’t donated to organizations helping to testify in court or at school board meetings. I don’t believe he’s donated to lawyers doing pro bono cases for detransitioners. I don’t believe he’s donated to a detransition clinic. There are plenty of organizations Elon could have donated money to end this horrible idea faster. But I don’t believe he has as all these organizations fighting to stop it are in need of money.

If I had the funds Elon had I would donate. And then it hit me. Elon doesn’t care to stop this like I do.

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

Frickin’ get me off this roller coaster’s big highs and lows.
I’m almost getting whiplash every time it stops and goes.
Every time her mood gets better, mine will quickly follow.
Every time she says dumb crap, my soul in pain will wallow.

“That guy is so dang hot, I think I’d like to marry him…
I believe that prancing ponies will be the next big thing.”
My mental health recuperates right there on the spot,
and hope shoots through my weary veins like COVID-19 shots.

But then she says she hates her body, and she hates her hair.
She chops her lovely locks off like my heart’s not even there.
She tries to rewrite history to fit her twisted script.
I feel that, as a parent, I am very ill-equipped.

But then she pulls a U-turn, and she turns ‘round on a dime,
and she reminds her mommy that she’s forever mine.
She kisses me and whispers that she loves her dad and me.
I hold her close and tell her that she will always be

our baby girl who dances, who loves Pinkie Pie and peach.
I remind her that her childhood dreams aren’t yet out of reach.
I say we’ll always love her, and we surely always will.
But get me off this dumb contraption and its cursed hills!

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Teans #transphobia pittparents.com

Before his official coming out, I saw signs of what was happening but was paralyzed by fear and refused to accept that we were losing our son to powerful influences beyond our control. A year later, my son came out to me as a woman trapped in a man’s body, and I could no longer deny what was happening.

Next, I felt depressed and anxious. Our son started medicating with hormones while still living at home. Seeing the changes in his personality and body made me the saddest and most anxious I have ever been. His dad and I tried bargaining with him to stop the medical interventions, but our attempts only drove him deeper into his trans identity. Since he was unable to get us to accept him as our “daughter,” and because he wouldn’t agree to stop taking hormones in our home, he left for good and cut us off.

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I am able to fully express my love to my other children with open arms and hold nothing back. Right now, I am living in a season of joy and don’t feel guilty for thoroughly enjoying vacations, holidays and birthdays without our son’s presence. When we celebrate or simply gather, I am fully present with the family, showing through words and actions that they are enough to bring great joy and fulfillment to me.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #conspiracy #crackpot pittparents.com

The PANDEMIC, known as Covid, created more isolation, and digital interference, influence, and sped up the trends. Kids had more anxiety, and turned to on-line communities for validation and guidance. We were witnessing actual social engineering of our society. The models, ushering in this widespread disruption of children’s minds, helped slowly to erase real family bonds, for the new fake family communities. Were they encouraging healing or normalizing permanent divisions in families? As the parents felt profound grief, confusion, depression, the kids, if adults, often felt relief and a sort of freedom, which they later would regret, and be really sorry. Unknown to the parents was the total transformation of morals, ethics, standards, once held as “Honorable” and now replaced by a Freer Model, like opposite of moral trends. Their identities were Changed from resilient, forgiving, family centered young people, to estranged, confused, angry, misguided, actually brainwashed youth, experiencing life from a whole new lens of depravity. They were being told their bodies are in need of changes, both chemical and surgical. But this came after the mental indoctrination was complete, to drive them to the next phase of puberty blockers, cross sex hormones, and then on to actual healthy body part amputations. The Family, therefore, had to be undone, to weaken the whole nation!