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Vanessa #transphobia #psycho pittparents.com

What the trans community has not grasped yet is that when a child transitions, they are in actuality killing the first child, hence dead name. If your child is old enough, you are under no obligation to care for them. My child transitioned as adult and it took me several years to figure out that the person who replaced my son, is nothing like my son . I didn't give birth to that person, I didn't raise that person, and I am under no obligation to care for that person. She essentially killed my son.

parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

[Parents addressing a transgender son]

You have been very firm in continuing to put yourself first; however, we have not put ourselves, our family, or our marriage first. You may have heard this from us before: we did not get married to have you; you are a result of our love and marriage. We must begin to put ourselves, our marriage, and our health first after so long.

We are not able to continue the emotional toll this has taken on our family and must make the unfortunate and truly heartbreaking decision to sever our ties.

Please begin to explore options for alternate housing during all breaks, including this Spring break and Summer. Additionally, it is fortunate that you are being paid very well for your research work for it will now need to be used for your college expenses including tuition, room and board, books, groceries, and personal expenses. We will continue to keep you on our health care through the end of this month. You may stay on the family plan for your phone until such time as you decide that it is another expense to take on. However, we will not be able to continue your coverage on our car insurance as we cannot have you as a liability when you are on testosterone and subject to its unpredictable effect on your cognitive and emotional state.

Lastly, if you have any items in the house that you want, please let us know in advance and we will have them ready for pick up at the door in a bag.

We are heartbroken and grieving that it has come to this—our worst nightmare is to no longer have you in our lives. However, we have put you first for so long that we cannot proceed any further. It is time for us to move forward with our lives. While you may not see it right now or for a very long time, we love you more than you know and will never stop loving, hoping, and praying for you.

We long for the day when we can welcome you back—with open arms and hearts—to our family as our daughter.

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

This is not my child, this young "woman" who sits before me, with "her" beautiful voice, "hEr" women's denim jacket she stole from "HeR" loving "girl"friend, "HER [sic]" beautiful face. It can't be! But it is. It is not my daughter but my eldest SON, sitting there before me, in the guise of the girl I always thought I wanted but never got. But he is not a real woman, no, not at all! I should find it grotesque, horrifying, this young boy turned by cross-sex hormones and time into a facsimile of a beautiful young woman. Everything about the way he looks, the way he talks, sounding just like any actual young woman, the way people unknowingly call him "her," the synthetic-estrogen-induced gynocomastia on his chest that looks just like healthy breasts, that so many women his age choose to cut off! I should scream, I should want to tear my eyes out at the terrible sight before me, and I do, but I cannot. I cannot help myself; I find him the most beautiful thing in the world. I hear strangers refer to him, my male son, as a woman. But I cannot bring myself to do more than patiently watch, than gently push back in quiet moments, than never to affirm but never quite to do more than gently encourage desistance. I cannot bring myself to do the right thing. The so-called "transgender ideology" that these supposed "trans-identified people" espouse is so vile, it perverts my mother's love for my son into implicitly submitting to it!

Some days my little hon's happier than I have seen him in years. Other days he is miserable. I worry that that is preventing me from giving him the help he deserves, but I try my best when he is happy. When he is happy, I cannot help but be happy for him, even though I know it is wrong, it is really hurting him. When I see his feminine appearance, in all respects like a tall woman, only just the smallest amount like the obvious men in dresses I am used to seeing, I can't help but love him. I should find it grotesque, even more so because he is so convincing in his disguise. That is what it is, after all. But I cannot. I cannot help but love my child, even when that love gets in the way of TRULY LOVING him. It makes me sick.

Colleen #transphobia pittparents.com

My son uninvited us to his graduation because he had his new name being announced . He told us he wasn't going so we had no invite either. But guess what there he was on the live stream that I watched to see his classmates being honoured. He found out through me being on his linked in to see if this was really how he was going into his career as a teacher that I knew that he had lied. He called me in tears saying he didn't understand what a graduation was all about until he heard the other graduates families cheering for them . He apologized. But guess what ? He had not done a legal name change so he had to apply for a "real " graduation diploma certificate in his given name!! Hallelujah!! The joke was on him. He has now registered in his real name and he is stuck with it unless he makes a lot of effort to legally change it. He has no money or time to do so .

Meanie Oldhunt #transphobia pittparents.com

(Context: a Mom on PITT throws a temper tantrum because her son is dating a Trans Woman. In the comments one person post an emoji of tea and a CD and someone else asks what that means.)

T[ea]CD is an acronym. It stands for TIMs Cannot Drive, which is a reference to the invalidation of trans identifying people’s driver’s licenses in Kansas this year. The invalidation happened overnight, so they couldn’t drive themselves to the DMV to get a replacement, which was a good idea. It’s clearly unsafe to allow someone to drive with a false gender marker. This raises the point I think jackie was trying to make: “if it’s unsafe to drive under a false gender marker, is it safe to date under one?” In short, this parent is not overreacting. If TIMs can’t be trusted to operate motor vehicles, they can’t date our sons. I’m not even sure if they should be allowed to use public transport. Maybe they can ride bicycles, so long as they are traditional bikes and not “e-bikes” (reminds me of e-cigs, not a fan)? Anyway, they definitely can’t date our children with or without a valid driver’s license.

PITT #transphobia pittparents.com

We told our daughter several years ago that if she went down the medicalization route that we were not going to continue to pay for college. She’s been on T for a year and a half, and we let that slide. But now that she’s done “top surgery’ and texted to say that her legal name change is in process. We’ve had enough. We refuse to subsidize this madness any longer.

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I wish to remain in contact with her but at what point will our boundaries as parents be respected? So many of you have no contact and my heart aches for you when I read your stories. That very real possibility scares the hell out of me. Thanks for reading my rant.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Learn from my mistakes. Look out for these signs in your kids, and maybe you can save them from trans.

1. An objection to being gendered properly. As happened back in December 2023, and several times after, our son refused to agree to any statement that referred to him as a male. This may seem obvious, but in the moment it is not.

2. Getting extremely emotional and intransigent whenever trans is brought up. As happened to us in March 2024. Don’t assume they are just deluded into being “allies”.

3. Changing political beliefs, especially to the extremes. As I discovered in July 2024, my son rapidly descended into an extreme form of socialist anarchism. This kind of turmoil is common in those struggling with identity and confused about their own gender. Don’t assume that just because your child has always had common sense, has always seen the good in both sides, that they will continue to do so.

4. Sudden intensifications of mental health issues. As happened to my son in December 2024, often trans will be very hard on someone’s mental health, and will worsen preexisting conditions, even the ones they later claim trans helped them fix! They won’t see reason on this, in my experience.

5. Hormonal imbalances. As my family saw in March 2025, they may be chemically induced. If your son in particular is often wearing hoodies, and self-conscious about their chest, and it seems to be growing gynecomastia all of a sudden for no reason, be concerned. Do not allow him to wear hoodies when the weather would not permit it, so that you can catch potential cases of trans early.

Unchangeable political beliefs. As we discovered in August 2025, our son had become intransigent on the issue of national defense, and refused to see reason, even when we point out that many of our family members are employed by the DoD. If your child refuses to be openminded politically, that may be a sign that they are a part of a new cult such as trans.

Bill Bradford #transphobia #wingnut pittparents.com

"PRIDE" = "Pedophiles Rule In Democrat Environments", and,

"so-called "trans-women" are really MEN".

OK, ok, just getting warmed up here....

Seriously, "Genderites"? Really? I was hearing "Genderist(s)".

OK, go with both/either. Genderites. Genderists.

GENDERISM. You know, like all the other "isms", - socialism, communism, fascism, even capitalism....

As a BTW, whatever "spellcheck" or AI is at work in this comment box, LIKES "genderist", but doesn't like "genderite(s)". Genderite gets the red squiggle underline, but genderist doesn't....?

WHY can't so-called "trans-women" athletes just compete in the men's divisions?.....

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

[Meeting her son's transgender girlfriend]

I remember when she walked in the room, and I immediately realized that she was not really a she. I confess, this had been one of my biggest fears for my son, as much as it chagrins me to admit this to a group of parents who may feel responsible in some way for their kids being a part of this. I must reassure you that I have no ill-will whatsoever to this gentleman’s parents and, in fact, I wish them the best and their son a swift recovery. When I first realized who had entered my house, though, I confess I did not know what to do, and so I did nothing. I pretended that “she” was a she, even though he clearly was not. I acquiesced to the delusion for the entire time she was in our house, and it was only after she left with my son back to university that I finally worked up the courage to confront my son.

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I immediately returned, leaving my husband at the hotel, and when I knocked on the door it was answered, not by my son, but by someone with longer hair, and makeup that made me at first fall for the illusion of womanhood. It was “Leah”, though his makeup made him look less disheveled and unkempt than last time I saw him. He called for my son, in a voice that was a crude approximation of a woman’s, and my son came, and screamed at me to “leave us alone!”. I confronted him about having this young man living with him without telling us, and he screamed, yes screamed, at me that “she [sic] is not [sic] a man, she [sic] is a beautiful [citation needed] woman [sic] who I love very much and if you can’t accept [sic] that, then you can leave”.

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Since then, our son has only had very short, angry calls with us. He refuses to see reason and refuses to listen to us patiently explaining how his encouragement of this young man’s delusion is hurting, not just him, but our son as well. He refuses to listen. It pains me to know that my own son is so enthusiastically complicit in the destruction of someone’s beloved son, but at this point I am lost as to how to proceed.

Natalia #transphobia pittparents.com

[Replying to a mother who objects to her 23-year-old son dating a trans woman]

I’m very sorry this has happened to you. Are you able to connect with your son’s boyfriend’s parents? You may want to explain that you don’t agree to this, and that you are NOT part of a glitter family.

When my daughter was groomed into the cult by her sick trans activist girlfriend I had a few words with her mother. She blocked me. I consider her the glitter family. You must ensure they don’t view you in such a way