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Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

As soon as I stepped into the church my heart was stabbed again. There, standing by his parents, was my son’s former best friend who was home visiting from college. He is a nerdy kid, like my own son, who is maturing into a handsome and delightful adult. Then his other former best friend, tall and handsome came in. His parents, our dear best friends of years, were sitting next to me. My mind flashed back when the three musketeers would sit together in church and then come to our home to play video games with other boys from church.

My heart broke into a million pieces and the sadness overtook me. Today, the music bounced off the walls and didn’t comfort me. As the music played and tears rolled down my eyes, my heart screamed to God “Why my son? Why our family? Why does he have to be the messed up one who wants to eradicate his identity and who is killing any chance to be a functional man one day? Why do my best friends have their SONS and I don’t have mine? Why? Why? Why?”

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

[Excerpt from a satirical piece depicting "the year 2035, after the gender clinics have been closed"]

The number of self-declared wizards has surged in recent years. Years ago, there were only a handful of wizards - mostly middle-aged men who discovered late in life that they were not “mundanes” (the wizard name for non-wizards), they were wizards! Now kids as young as four years old are surprising their parents with the statement, “Mom, Dad - I’m a wizard!” New subreddit groups are starting every day!

How do these kids know they are wizards? It’s an inner feeling of self, and if a child feels it, the only treatment is to start “wizard affirmation care” or “WAC”, prescribed by wizard doctors. Wizard clinics are opening everywhere! The care starts with a daily cocktail of legal drugs that are used in an off-label way: It’s typically a special mix of LSD, anabolic steroids, thalidomide, and fentanyl, all used to enhance wizard capabilities. Surgical modifications include lopping off body parts and reshaping them into humps, tails, fangs, beards, wings, and just about anything a wizard can think of. Most wizard doctors are former gender doctors, so they are ready and eager to experiment on healthy bodies, never mind the harm. Wizards are very secretive about their magic, and will not demonstrate it to non-believers, but find their magic is very helpful in sports.

Some skeptics are concerned that this new “wizard industry” is too similar to the old “gender industry”, where kids as young as five years old would claim they were “born in the wrong body”, and gender doctors would give them drugs and perform surgeries so these kids could “live their authentic life”. With no biological basis for such claims and no evidence of improved mental health, the gender industry fell apart under a wave of lawsuits followed by criminal trials where hundreds of doctors were charged with gross negligence, making death threats against children, and advocating suicide, though many doctors escaped jail-time claiming they were just following AMA-approved “standards of care”.

Adri Mans #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

Transgenderism is demonic because comes from the rebel angels who hate God and everything He creates including us. They want our destruction that is why we have all this culture of death, euthanasia, abortion, sterilization, castration, etc. Transgenderism is not an isolate thing is part of a bigger problem, a spiritual problem, humans had forgot how to fight back because they dismissed the belief in Satan as a "thing of the past and of primitive and superstitious people" as we are all now so sophisticated and civilized and better??? Look around!

Are we better or we are asleep that we cannot recognize any longer bad from good?? We allow experimentation on children with drugs and surgeries!! Satanism is a legal religion in America!!! You have covenants of witches all over and through entertainment the dissemination of spells and demonic practices are everywhere!! We have a plague of paganism, human sacrifices to Baal!

PITTParents #ableist #conspiracy #transphobia pittparents.com

It all started back in 2023. Discord. Porn. That “markymoo” creep whispering filth into your ears for hours, grooming you with “You’re special, different—let me show you your true self,” preying on the loneliness you experienced from head trauma and bullying, filling your heart with confusion and false promises of belonging. They target vulnerable kids like you: isolated by social anxiety, fear of peers, lack of skills and bursts of rage. Online cults lure with, “Deadnaming is violence,” evoking tears of relief while sowing hatred. Dr. Sager, a psychiatrist from a local mental health clinic, kicked me out, left you alone in that cold room, and started the deep brainwashing: “You’ve always been a boy; your parents just suppressed it,” holding your hand, whispering “I see the real you,” making you feel “seen” for the first time, while ignoring your ADHD and OCD, turning your pain into their agenda, leaving you sobbing in “euphoria” but more broken inside.

They groom teens systematically. They start with online pushing “gender euphoria” via porn, anime and TikTok, labelling family as transphobic, making you cry over “lost years.” Therapists only affirm, they don’t ask questions, they hug you through “breakthroughs” that shatter your soul. Schools hide name changes, report on non-affirming parents, whispering “we’re your safe space.” Child Protective Services intervene, pairing children with affirming fosters who coach them to report on their “unsafe” home. Institutions rewrite history, “Your trauma is from cis-prison,” evoking guilt and floods of manipulated emotion. They evoke guilt, “Staying with parents betrays trans community.” They provide no-contact scripts, “Block them; they’re oppressors,” leaving you isolated, heartbroken, but convinced it’s “freedom.”

You parroted their mantras like a broken record, eyes filled with tears they called “joy.”
“I don’t feel safe at home.”
“Deadnaming is violence.”
“If they make me go back, I’ll end it.”

I heard you say those lines to the minor’s attorney, voice trembling, like someone was holding a script in front of you—your sobs echoing their control.

Gina Smalley #transphobia #wingnut pittparents.com

["Trans-ideology became a hot topic during the election. Some say it swung the election to Trump."]

Yes, it does seem to be heading in the right direction thanks to the Trump administration! I am hopeful this ideology will soon come to an end. I would like to know who was funding this madness surrounding the Biden administration. The Biden admin was filled with true evil. I honestly cannot make sense of how something like this could be basically promoted from our government. Unfortunately, my 22 year old is still obsessed with this and I don’t have much recourse in stopping him from moving forward with his obsession since he is an adult. We will be cutting back on financial support ad much as we can if he moves forward.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

I have a 22-year-old son, high functioning on the spectrum. He’s always been quirky and socially awkward but also a kind, loving and sweet boy. He attended Catholic schools through high school, then attended community college for two years. He also worked throughout his time high school and community college. In high school he came out as gay which we fully accepted. We decided to let him go to university to finish his last two years of college.

Unfortunately, this is when the downfall started. He found a group of LBGTQ furries, found his so-called friends and now has told us he’s transgender. We found out he has been taking black market HRT for the past four months. We were able to get this away from him but who knows what was actually in the meds he was using. They were coming from other countries. He basically had a psychotic episode, which was horrific. He ended up in a high-level psychiatric hospital for a week, then we sent him to a recovery facility which was supposed to be for five weeks. They did help him work through some emotional distress; however, they were affirming of his gender identity. After three weeks at this facility, we pulled him out as it seemed the facility was blaming us, his parents, for his mental health issues.

[...]

I believe the indoctrination into trans-ideology starts online with the so-called innocent gaming and YouTube, all infiltrated with manipulative evil. We are currently $75,000 into treatment and there’s been no change in his trans-identitfication.

I don’t know how much more my husband and I can take of this emotionally. The devastation and depression have gripped us. The fact that our son is 22 years also complicates matter as he is legally an adult.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

The holidays are NOT the most wonderful time of the year for many of us PITT families. The Christmas hymn O Come All Ye Faithful beacons us to come joyful and triumphant. However, for parents, grandparents and siblings of trans-identified family members, there is no joy to be found and no triumph to be felt.

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Instead of joy and peace, we experience sorrow and anxiety. We find ourselves exhausted, disappointed and with no energy or desire to shop, cook or celebrate the holidays. Shopping for the child who’s declared that he/she is not our son/daughter feels as if the floor of the mall has become lava. We tip-toe around, trying not to get burned. We look for neutral items which makes finding a present an impersonal and painful task. Then, what do we write on the name tag? We either lie to ourselves to make them happy or write the truth and create and explosion of anger. So, we settle for “To: My dearest second child”. We dread not seeing the estranged or distant child and we dread seeing them and the potential scenes that will take place if anyone “deadnames” him/her. We anticipate the gray cloud that will settle over the table while everyone is trying to enjoy a holiday meal that will taste bitter to us.

Why celebrate when we will be painfully reminded that our families are broken and incomplete? How do we reconcile the bustle and hustle of the season with the emptiness that we feel, not only inside, but tangibly through the empty seats at the table? Even if a chair is not empty, there’s one that might as well be because the child or grandchild who sits there is as absent and removed as the one who doesn’t come home.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #enbyphobia pittparents.com

Throughout the decades, every generation has gone through its own movement, its own trend that defined its time. […] These were phases, styles, ways of expressing personality. None of them denied reality or who a person truly was. They were expressions, not alternate identities.

But something changed in recent years, especially after the pandemic. A completely different kind of “trend” appeared. It stopped being about music, style, or behavior. It became about escaping inner pain by creating an identity totally disconnected from reality. People began believing they could be anything except what they were born as — animals, undefined identities, an endless list of genders — all as a way to hide emotional wounds, loneliness, and personal struggles.

The saddest part is that many enter these movements convinced that this escape will bring relief. But it doesn’t. In fact, it creates bigger wounds. People altering their bodies irreversibly, believing that would solve their problems, only to discover nothing inside was healed. Families breaking apart, relationships collapsing, people becoming isolated and lost. Many end up dealing with deep depression, hopelessness, and even suicidal thoughts when they realize that changing the outside does not fix the emptiness inside.

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One day, I hope society will look back and understand that so much of what we see today is not identity, but untreated emotional pain. And instead of helping people face their real struggles with honesty, support, and love, we encouraged them to run from themselves.

In the end, every human being is searching for belonging, purpose, and peace. None of that is found by rejecting one’s own identity. Real healing comes from truth, from courage, from facing our pain, and from the strength we find in God, family, and reality itself.

May that day come soon.

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

Whispers behind our backs.
A friend of a friend of a friend.
‘Did you know?
Did you know they won’t call their son their daughter?
Why not?
Because.
Because they’re transphobic.’

They know.
Those who have not read anything about this.
They know what’s going on and they know what we are.
We’re transphobic.
‘It’s like gay.
Only trans.
Same thing.’
They know.
‘Transphobic!’

But they can’t say it to us.
They say it behind our backs.
Better that way.
They want to be nice.
‘Defend themselves??
How could they possibly defend themselves?
There is nothing they can say anyway.
They’re transphobic.
Why would we have a conversation with them?
La la la.’

But we love our son!!
Wait....please...listen to us!
Did you know they are cutting the breasts off of 14 year old girls?
‘La la la.
They are not doing that!
We don’t believe you.
Anyway they just want to be their authentic selves.
Leave them alone!’

No!
Listen!
Please!

They think there is no reason except transphobia to not call our son our daughter.
Nobody wants to hear that you can’t actually be born in the wrong body.
‘La la la’.
Nobody wants to hear how devastating it is to have a beloved son enter into a cultish delusion where the end game is cutting off body parts.
‘La la la’.
Nobody wants to hear how deeply it hurts us to know that everyone is celebrating him...celebrating what? That he will pretend to be what he is not for the rest of his life?

Devastating to us.
Everyone else celebrates.
Yesterday we were nice people.
Today we’re transphobic.
Everyone is so sure of themselves.
They know.

Actually.
They have no idea.

Jennifer Bond Baker #transphobia pittparents.com

[comment under a transphobic detranser’s screed]
Just know that parents like me who are still cut off from an adult child (who may have irreparable harm) do not see it your way. We are very thankful for you, happy for you, for your family… that at least someone escaped unharmed. Just the fact that you walked away, for any reason, is its own testimony. And it gives us hope.

Thank you for your essay. God bless you.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #wingnut pittparents.com

It is hard not to find it strange when teachers, doctors, psychologists, and institutions begin repeating the same script. When everyone answers the same way, using the same words and the same arguments, the question becomes inevitable: where is this playbook? Discord? Closed groups? The dark web? Colleges? Schools? We may not know exactly where it is, but it is evident that there is a shared orientation.

What also draws attention is the existence of a very clear step-by-step process. The standard answer to “why this is happening,” the narrative of when it began, the ready-made discourse offered by professionals, and the anger almost always directed at the family, at parents, at any form of boundaries. None of this feels spontaneous. Telling a father or a mother, “would you rather have a dead son or a living daughter,” is not care. It is emotional blackmail. It is psychological terror. It is a way to silence any honest reflection through fear.

The result is a generation being emotionally weakened: men being taught to reject masculinity, women encouraged to deny femininity, religions being ridiculed, the family portrayed as oppressive, and parents who guide, shape, and prepare their children for the world being labeled as toxic villains. Years ago, if someone looked in the mirror believing their internal conflicts would be resolved by changing sex, this would have been treated as a mental health disorder. When and why did that change?

An ROGD Dad #transphobia pittparents.com

I told you my child was dying of cancer.
You offered your sympathy.
But then you laughed, saying that
“At least cancer is pretty rare.
It’s not that big of an issue to me.”

But she isn’t dying of cancer,
She’s dying from an ideology.
Your cancerous ideology,
And your virtuous indifference.