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Bonnie, James Loewen #transphobia #conspiracy pittparents.com

(Bonnie)
Our son was in his dorm room for 2 years during the lockdowns, learning and tutoring from there. He's now non binary, wearing feminine clothes, nail polish and styling his hair. I talk to him and he sounds like a 13 year old girl. He's into candles, pink stuff and hugs a squishmellow toy. His favorite movies are kids' ones like Zootopia etc. He's regressed when he was supposed to become a young adult. As a child he was more fearful of things than other boys, btw.

He feels like this is the identity he was meant to have but I'm seeing it as a psychological mechanism to deal with lockdowns, uncertainty, fear of long covid etc. Instead of helping my fearful son, doctors have given him hormones to grow breasts.

This trans identity is a coping strategy for many.

(James Loewen)
Deep research will show there is no "long covid" or regular "covid" just an orchestrated fear campaign to manipulate and control the masses. Research into this fake pandemic reveals a great many other orchestrated events have been presented to us through governments and media to frighten and manipulate the people. John Hamer's book, "The Falsification of History" is a great resource. There are many others.

Indeed, trans identity is a coping mechanism, often adopted as a response to various forms of trauma.

Your statement, "as a child he was more fearful of things than other boys" resounds with me. Sensitive boys often have difficulty visualizing themselves as adult men. They need kind and gentle men as role models to realize they don't have to emulate the men most often presented in the corrupt media. If your son can hear the sobering and heartbreaking stories of adult male detransitioners, Forrest Smith, Richie Herron, Shapeshifter, Daniel Black, Airiel Salvatore, and many more, perhaps it will give him pause for thought, and recognize and appreciate his perfect body.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #conspiracy pittparents.com

In March 2020, we were told school closures would last 15 days in order to slow the spread of COVID. Like most parents, we went along willingly. We believed we were protecting our children and we trusted that the disruption would be brief.

What none of us could have foreseen was how those “15 days” would stretch into years or how removing children from school, friendships, routines, and embodied daily life would quietly and profoundly affect their mental health and sense of selves.

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Before lockdowns, school gave my child more than academics. It provided structure, peer interaction, adult guidance, and a steady connection to everyday physical reality. When all of that vanished virtually overnight, my daughter, who was already anxious, neurodivergent, and often dysregulated, retreated deeply into the online world. Screens replaced classmates. Online communities replaced real friendships. Conversations about identity replaced ordinary, grounding experiences.

Lockdowns removed many protective factors all at once: school, extracurriculars, peer relationships, and exposure to a range of perspectives. For many children, distress that might once have been buffered by routine and social contact instead intensified in isolation. Online spaces offered certainty and belonging at a time when everything else felt unstable.

For my child, that certainty came in the form of gender identity narratives. Without regular access to real-world anchors, her distress deepened, and her focus on her body became consuming. What might have been a period of exploration instead became something more rigid and difficult to unwind.

[... they forced their child to hide their gender identity ...]

The pandemic is often discussed in broad, public health terms, but the consequences played out in individual homes and in our children’s inner lives.

Mom22 #conspiracy #crackpot #quack #transphobia pittparents.com

It’s really beyond coincidence that our stories are all so similar from how & when to the words used. It’s not coincidence. Sometimes I tell myself I must be absolutely insane to be such a conspiracy theorist. At this point I am not beyond thinking the pandemic was just a cover up to get at our kids. The whole thing was structured to either kill us old folks or destroy as many of us thru stress & sterilize our kids.

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

It creeps into morning consciousness, still fresh and naive, and sucks the life out of it. Pastel colours of a once calm mind turn grey and staticky. A new day, that was supposed to mean new opportunities and mundane magic, is now a pointless stack of minutes and hours, like old gum pulled thin and long.

It collects mothers’ tears, gulps vitality, and steals fathers’ sleep and dignity. It turns them into some unfathomable currency called euphoria. A child in pain trades her wholeness for it.

It doesn’t kill hope immediately; it plays with it for a while, suffocates it almost to the point of death, leaves it breathless, then resuscitates it for a few moments, lets it linger, and the cycle goes on and on. Eventually, something dies out. Myocarditis of the soul?

Its name is Trans.

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

Whispers behind our backs.
A friend of a friend of a friend.
‘Did you know?
Did you know they won’t call their son their daughter?
Why not?
Because.
Because they’re transphobic.’

They know.
Those who have not read anything about this.
They know what’s going on and they know what we are.
We’re transphobic.
‘It’s like gay.
Only trans.
Same thing.’
They know.
‘Transphobic!’

But they can’t say it to us.
They say it behind our backs.
Better that way.
They want to be nice.
‘Defend themselves??
How could they possibly defend themselves?
There is nothing they can say anyway.
They’re transphobic.
Why would we have a conversation with them?
La la la.’

But we love our son!!
Wait....please...listen to us!
Did you know they are cutting the breasts off of 14 year old girls?
‘La la la.
They are not doing that!
We don’t believe you.
Anyway they just want to be their authentic selves.
Leave them alone!’

No!
Listen!
Please!

They think there is no reason except transphobia to not call our son our daughter.
Nobody wants to hear that you can’t actually be born in the wrong body.
‘La la la’.
Nobody wants to hear how devastating it is to have a beloved son enter into a cultish delusion where the end game is cutting off body parts.
‘La la la’.
Nobody wants to hear how deeply it hurts us to know that everyone is celebrating him...celebrating what? That he will pretend to be what he is not for the rest of his life?

Devastating to us.
Everyone else celebrates.
Yesterday we were nice people.
Today we’re transphobic.
Everyone is so sure of themselves.
They know.

Actually.
They have no idea.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

[Excerpt from a satirical piece depicting "the year 2035, after the gender clinics have been closed"]

The number of self-declared wizards has surged in recent years. Years ago, there were only a handful of wizards - mostly middle-aged men who discovered late in life that they were not “mundanes” (the wizard name for non-wizards), they were wizards! Now kids as young as four years old are surprising their parents with the statement, “Mom, Dad - I’m a wizard!” New subreddit groups are starting every day!

How do these kids know they are wizards? It’s an inner feeling of self, and if a child feels it, the only treatment is to start “wizard affirmation care” or “WAC”, prescribed by wizard doctors. Wizard clinics are opening everywhere! The care starts with a daily cocktail of legal drugs that are used in an off-label way: It’s typically a special mix of LSD, anabolic steroids, thalidomide, and fentanyl, all used to enhance wizard capabilities. Surgical modifications include lopping off body parts and reshaping them into humps, tails, fangs, beards, wings, and just about anything a wizard can think of. Most wizard doctors are former gender doctors, so they are ready and eager to experiment on healthy bodies, never mind the harm. Wizards are very secretive about their magic, and will not demonstrate it to non-believers, but find their magic is very helpful in sports.

Some skeptics are concerned that this new “wizard industry” is too similar to the old “gender industry”, where kids as young as five years old would claim they were “born in the wrong body”, and gender doctors would give them drugs and perform surgeries so these kids could “live their authentic life”. With no biological basis for such claims and no evidence of improved mental health, the gender industry fell apart under a wave of lawsuits followed by criminal trials where hundreds of doctors were charged with gross negligence, making death threats against children, and advocating suicide, though many doctors escaped jail-time claiming they were just following AMA-approved “standards of care”.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #wingnut pittparents.com

It is hard not to find it strange when teachers, doctors, psychologists, and institutions begin repeating the same script. When everyone answers the same way, using the same words and the same arguments, the question becomes inevitable: where is this playbook? Discord? Closed groups? The dark web? Colleges? Schools? We may not know exactly where it is, but it is evident that there is a shared orientation.

What also draws attention is the existence of a very clear step-by-step process. The standard answer to “why this is happening,” the narrative of when it began, the ready-made discourse offered by professionals, and the anger almost always directed at the family, at parents, at any form of boundaries. None of this feels spontaneous. Telling a father or a mother, “would you rather have a dead son or a living daughter,” is not care. It is emotional blackmail. It is psychological terror. It is a way to silence any honest reflection through fear.

The result is a generation being emotionally weakened: men being taught to reject masculinity, women encouraged to deny femininity, religions being ridiculed, the family portrayed as oppressive, and parents who guide, shape, and prepare their children for the world being labeled as toxic villains. Years ago, if someone looked in the mirror believing their internal conflicts would be resolved by changing sex, this would have been treated as a mental health disorder. When and why did that change?

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

As soon as I stepped into the church my heart was stabbed again. There, standing by his parents, was my son’s former best friend who was home visiting from college. He is a nerdy kid, like my own son, who is maturing into a handsome and delightful adult. Then his other former best friend, tall and handsome came in. His parents, our dear best friends of years, were sitting next to me. My mind flashed back when the three musketeers would sit together in church and then come to our home to play video games with other boys from church.

My heart broke into a million pieces and the sadness overtook me. Today, the music bounced off the walls and didn’t comfort me. As the music played and tears rolled down my eyes, my heart screamed to God “Why my son? Why our family? Why does he have to be the messed up one who wants to eradicate his identity and who is killing any chance to be a functional man one day? Why do my best friends have their SONS and I don’t have mine? Why? Why? Why?”

Jennifer Bond Baker #transphobia pittparents.com

[comment under a transphobic detranser’s screed]
Just know that parents like me who are still cut off from an adult child (who may have irreparable harm) do not see it your way. We are very thankful for you, happy for you, for your family… that at least someone escaped unharmed. Just the fact that you walked away, for any reason, is its own testimony. And it gives us hope.

Thank you for your essay. God bless you.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #enbyphobia pittparents.com

Throughout the decades, every generation has gone through its own movement, its own trend that defined its time. […] These were phases, styles, ways of expressing personality. None of them denied reality or who a person truly was. They were expressions, not alternate identities.

But something changed in recent years, especially after the pandemic. A completely different kind of “trend” appeared. It stopped being about music, style, or behavior. It became about escaping inner pain by creating an identity totally disconnected from reality. People began believing they could be anything except what they were born as — animals, undefined identities, an endless list of genders — all as a way to hide emotional wounds, loneliness, and personal struggles.

The saddest part is that many enter these movements convinced that this escape will bring relief. But it doesn’t. In fact, it creates bigger wounds. People altering their bodies irreversibly, believing that would solve their problems, only to discover nothing inside was healed. Families breaking apart, relationships collapsing, people becoming isolated and lost. Many end up dealing with deep depression, hopelessness, and even suicidal thoughts when they realize that changing the outside does not fix the emptiness inside.

[…]

One day, I hope society will look back and understand that so much of what we see today is not identity, but untreated emotional pain. And instead of helping people face their real struggles with honesty, support, and love, we encouraged them to run from themselves.

In the end, every human being is searching for belonging, purpose, and peace. None of that is found by rejecting one’s own identity. Real healing comes from truth, from courage, from facing our pain, and from the strength we find in God, family, and reality itself.

May that day come soon.

Adri Mans #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

Transgenderism is demonic because comes from the rebel angels who hate God and everything He creates including us. They want our destruction that is why we have all this culture of death, euthanasia, abortion, sterilization, castration, etc. Transgenderism is not an isolate thing is part of a bigger problem, a spiritual problem, humans had forgot how to fight back because they dismissed the belief in Satan as a "thing of the past and of primitive and superstitious people" as we are all now so sophisticated and civilized and better??? Look around!

Are we better or we are asleep that we cannot recognize any longer bad from good?? We allow experimentation on children with drugs and surgeries!! Satanism is a legal religion in America!!! You have covenants of witches all over and through entertainment the dissemination of spells and demonic practices are everywhere!! We have a plague of paganism, human sacrifices to Baal!

PITTParents #ableist #conspiracy #transphobia pittparents.com

It all started back in 2023. Discord. Porn. That “markymoo” creep whispering filth into your ears for hours, grooming you with “You’re special, different—let me show you your true self,” preying on the loneliness you experienced from head trauma and bullying, filling your heart with confusion and false promises of belonging. They target vulnerable kids like you: isolated by social anxiety, fear of peers, lack of skills and bursts of rage. Online cults lure with, “Deadnaming is violence,” evoking tears of relief while sowing hatred. Dr. Sager, a psychiatrist from a local mental health clinic, kicked me out, left you alone in that cold room, and started the deep brainwashing: “You’ve always been a boy; your parents just suppressed it,” holding your hand, whispering “I see the real you,” making you feel “seen” for the first time, while ignoring your ADHD and OCD, turning your pain into their agenda, leaving you sobbing in “euphoria” but more broken inside.

They groom teens systematically. They start with online pushing “gender euphoria” via porn, anime and TikTok, labelling family as transphobic, making you cry over “lost years.” Therapists only affirm, they don’t ask questions, they hug you through “breakthroughs” that shatter your soul. Schools hide name changes, report on non-affirming parents, whispering “we’re your safe space.” Child Protective Services intervene, pairing children with affirming fosters who coach them to report on their “unsafe” home. Institutions rewrite history, “Your trauma is from cis-prison,” evoking guilt and floods of manipulated emotion. They evoke guilt, “Staying with parents betrays trans community.” They provide no-contact scripts, “Block them; they’re oppressors,” leaving you isolated, heartbroken, but convinced it’s “freedom.”

You parroted their mantras like a broken record, eyes filled with tears they called “joy.”
“I don’t feel safe at home.”
“Deadnaming is violence.”
“If they make me go back, I’ll end it.”

I heard you say those lines to the minor’s attorney, voice trembling, like someone was holding a script in front of you—your sobs echoing their control.

Gina Smalley #transphobia #wingnut pittparents.com

["Trans-ideology became a hot topic during the election. Some say it swung the election to Trump."]

Yes, it does seem to be heading in the right direction thanks to the Trump administration! I am hopeful this ideology will soon come to an end. I would like to know who was funding this madness surrounding the Biden administration. The Biden admin was filled with true evil. I honestly cannot make sense of how something like this could be basically promoted from our government. Unfortunately, my 22 year old is still obsessed with this and I don’t have much recourse in stopping him from moving forward with his obsession since he is an adult. We will be cutting back on financial support ad much as we can if he moves forward.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

I have a 22-year-old son, high functioning on the spectrum. He’s always been quirky and socially awkward but also a kind, loving and sweet boy. He attended Catholic schools through high school, then attended community college for two years. He also worked throughout his time high school and community college. In high school he came out as gay which we fully accepted. We decided to let him go to university to finish his last two years of college.

Unfortunately, this is when the downfall started. He found a group of LBGTQ furries, found his so-called friends and now has told us he’s transgender. We found out he has been taking black market HRT for the past four months. We were able to get this away from him but who knows what was actually in the meds he was using. They were coming from other countries. He basically had a psychotic episode, which was horrific. He ended up in a high-level psychiatric hospital for a week, then we sent him to a recovery facility which was supposed to be for five weeks. They did help him work through some emotional distress; however, they were affirming of his gender identity. After three weeks at this facility, we pulled him out as it seemed the facility was blaming us, his parents, for his mental health issues.

[...]

I believe the indoctrination into trans-ideology starts online with the so-called innocent gaming and YouTube, all infiltrated with manipulative evil. We are currently $75,000 into treatment and there’s been no change in his trans-identitfication.

I don’t know how much more my husband and I can take of this emotionally. The devastation and depression have gripped us. The fact that our son is 22 years also complicates matter as he is legally an adult.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

The holidays are NOT the most wonderful time of the year for many of us PITT families. The Christmas hymn O Come All Ye Faithful beacons us to come joyful and triumphant. However, for parents, grandparents and siblings of trans-identified family members, there is no joy to be found and no triumph to be felt.

[...]

Instead of joy and peace, we experience sorrow and anxiety. We find ourselves exhausted, disappointed and with no energy or desire to shop, cook or celebrate the holidays. Shopping for the child who’s declared that he/she is not our son/daughter feels as if the floor of the mall has become lava. We tip-toe around, trying not to get burned. We look for neutral items which makes finding a present an impersonal and painful task. Then, what do we write on the name tag? We either lie to ourselves to make them happy or write the truth and create and explosion of anger. So, we settle for “To: My dearest second child”. We dread not seeing the estranged or distant child and we dread seeing them and the potential scenes that will take place if anyone “deadnames” him/her. We anticipate the gray cloud that will settle over the table while everyone is trying to enjoy a holiday meal that will taste bitter to us.

Why celebrate when we will be painfully reminded that our families are broken and incomplete? How do we reconcile the bustle and hustle of the season with the emptiness that we feel, not only inside, but tangibly through the empty seats at the table? Even if a chair is not empty, there’s one that might as well be because the child or grandchild who sits there is as absent and removed as the one who doesn’t come home.

An ROGD Dad #transphobia pittparents.com

I told you my child was dying of cancer.
You offered your sympathy.
But then you laughed, saying that
“At least cancer is pretty rare.
It’s not that big of an issue to me.”

But she isn’t dying of cancer,
She’s dying from an ideology.
Your cancerous ideology,
And your virtuous indifference.

SaltSweet #transphobia pittparents.com

Having a son or daughter who is a “transformer,” no matter what age they do it, is like witnessing a kind of suicide. We feel we’ve lost our 30 year old son to suicide. He has killed the man we thought he was and has removed himself from our lives so that we do not see him anymore. Just as if he had died. It brings a kind of sadness that accompanies death and yet there is that glimmer of hope that he will come back to us, “clothed and in his right mind.”

distressed parent #transphobia pittparents.com

I did try to educate my son about the trans insanity and found who I thought was a sane therapist when my son flirted with the trans nonsense during high school. But maybe I should have sat on the couch more next to my son while he played video games. Maybe I should have forbid him playing Dungeons and Dragons with a bunch of girls -- but I didn't want him lonely. Maybe, maybe, maybe. But my husband and I did exert substantial effort to help our confused son, and we thought he was in remission when he was thriving in high school. And then he fell deep into the trans abyss freshman year at an esteemed college. And now he is a collapsed person at 23 -- mentally and physically deteriorated.

When we were in the thick of it, PITT had not started. Maybe if it had, I would have known how to try harder. I need to find a way to now drown in regret or sadness. Most days I'm doing okay now -- as one of my friends said, you can only sustain a crisis so long. But the ache is still there because the hope is less. Regret is a stubborn residue of this relentless sad horror in my culture that feeds children to a monster.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Last Christmas some of the family were grievously absent. The differences took center stage and obscured the love that had always held us together. Silence dominated where laughter had always resounded. Rejection replaced open arms and acceptance. In my pain, I wonder what happened.

Oh, I know what instigated the avalanche. It wasn’t my grandson’s announcement that he was transgender, though some might think so. He didn’t cause this division. It was the choice of his parents to require affirmation of his revelation. It wasn’t enough to love him and nurture his growth in self-discovery. It wasn’t enough for his mother or her sisters. It wasn’t enough to give him time and encouragement to grow out of his awkward feelings that confuse him and make him so uncomfortable. No, it wasn’t his choice. It was his mother’s, together with his aunts. It was their grown-up, mature decisions to intercept and discard every communication, even every expression of love and acceptance, that didn’t conform to their perception of what it should be.

I can’t wrap my head around it. Since when is a gift given to say, “I love you! You’re important to me! I miss you!” an offensive? How can that be labeled hateful?

Here we are with another lonely Christmas looming ahead. My heart is breaking for the absence of them all! I’m extremely thankful for the compassionate understanding that my sons and their families give me. It’s not that their support isn’t greatly appreciated. Oh, it’s appreciated more than words can express. But it doesn’t remove the sting of their sisters’ rejection. Only my daughters can remove this pain. Only God can heal it.

Broken Hearted Mom #transphobia #ableist pittparents.com

My son. Brilliant. Not autistic. Same online exposure. He suddenly decided at 19. He's 27 now. I describe him as my bosomed son because he is on an artificial amount of estrogen that was never meant for his body. A host of "medical personnel" are participating in this abuse, anti-hypocratic oath. Even the so-called therapist is not providing therapy, but destructive encouragement. We've spoken all the logic, but this contagion seems to, at least temporarily and just long enough, block one's ability to think with reason and logic. The only thing I know to do now is remain in the wings for the day it all crashes down.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

You see us gathering in our ranks now - weary and wounded but still ready, willing, and able to head directly into battle. See us entering the field:

Grandmas and grandpas whose opinions were disregarded as ‘old fashioned’ and ‘out of touch’ as they attempted again and again to reach out in loving kindness to their precious grandchildren.

Childhood friends who watched in horror as their old friend devolved into someone they couldn’t recognize - only interested in hanging out with other poor deluded souls - leaving good friends in the dust.

Family doctors - the few standing by their oath and refusing to refer a patient they have known since birth - and then watching that young patient pursue physical harm through the oxymoron known as ’affirming care.’

Aunties and Uncles, who, while writing out a birthday card to what seems like an empty hole - never getting a ‘thank you’ or even a ‘hello’ text in return - wondering how to address the card - finally deciding to throw it out and just put cash in an envelope instead.

Siblings who watched their parents dissolve into a messy ball of insecurity as this one sibling pulled down every tradition, every family vacation, every high school prom, every holiday, every joyous memory - as this one sibling sucked all of the air out of the loving family leaving an empty shell of people trying to hold it together in the wake of ‘wokeness.’

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Dear Sir or Madam:

I will be brief. My daughter, who suffers from the delusion that she can change her sex, was harmed by her local school. She was also harmed by so-called Child Protective Services in New Jersey when they intervened and came to our home, referring to our daughter by the made-up name she goes by at school. I was never informed that my daughter was going by a name other than her legal one.

Teachers and school administration allowed this to happen. When she was about to graduate, the school permitted, and possibly even encouraged, her and others to dress in clothes typical for the opposite gender at the graduation ceremony. And I was asked, via email, to purchase a tuxedo for my daughter. I refused. My daughter attended the celebration in a tuxedo, against our wishes.

The harm this has caused me and my husband is difficult to express

Joy Nevin Axelson #transphobia pittparents.com

["ROGD" stands for "rapid onset gender dysphoria"]

ROGD spreads like leprosy.
This social contagion, this fatal disease,
which forces parents to their knees
to plead for sound philosophy,
to challenge pharmacology’s
fake panacea “therapy”
that causes harm irreparably.
I’m heartened poor Hippocrates
did not live on for centuries
to witness evil tragedies
where souls are sold for golden greed
and loving hearts of every creed
are threatened, shamed, and told that we
are toxic, transphobe families
who don’t care for the least of these,
who, dragged away, are promised peace
and stripped of personalities.
Their minds are filled with fitful dreams,
death’s lust for virgins to appease.

PITT parents #dunning-kruger #pratt #transphobia pittparents.com

(post claims they’ve discovered a new intervention that cures a long list of symptoms gender dysphoria)

So, what is this Intervention?

So, what is this new intervention that is so good at alleviating Gender Dysphoria? It is Puberty! Yes puberty. As it is a bit of a turbulent time it can of course, be associated with some increased risks of mental health concerns as a person develops, however it also presents opportunities for positive development and maturing. Understanding and supporting adolescents through this period can help maximize the potential mental health benefits of puberty. Going through puberty can lead to the development of deeper peer relationships, development of the brain regions involved in understanding others’ perspectives (social cognition), which helps adolescents build stronger peer connections and social support networks and is strongly linked to better mental health and resilience. It is also related to the exploration of personal identity and self-awareness, development of greater emotional awareness and coping strategies, influences brain development and function and synaptic pruning, enables emotional resilience and social competence, develops the pre-frontal cortex which aids problem solving. It leads to an increase in production of white matter brain volume, improves communication and connectivity between brain regions and more efficient cognitive processing and emotional regulation. It leads to an increase in emotional intensity by stimulating the limbic system and risk-taking behaviours necessary to help develop adult roles. It also develops the corpus callosum which supports improved coordination between analytical and creative thinking. Therefor not experiencng puberty or delaying puberty leads to stunted or delayed general development and the likelihood of prolonged Gender Dysphoria.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Things are starting to change. More and more people are beginning to see that the trans agenda is not the hill to die on.

My best friend growing up was one of the first people I knew to add pronouns to her bio. She runs a DEI company and proudly calls herself a social justice warrior. For years, I struggled to relate to her after my son went down the trans rabbit hole. […]

Then, there are my sisters. I was once incredibly close to them. But, after I told them what was happening with my son, everything changed. They treated me like I’d fallen into conspiracy theories. They were staunchly progressive, loyal Democrats, and refused to believe that “trans” might not be what we were told. […]

For a long time, I avoided them. My husband encouraged me to try again, to reconnect, and eventually, I decided he was right. I missed my family. So, I got in the car and drove eight hours to visit one of my sisters.

What happened during that visit left me speechless. At one point, she mentioned seeing gender-confused kids everywhere and said she was worried about what’s happening. Later, she casually added that she and our other two sisters had all left the Democratic Party and changed their registration to Independent. I could hardly believe it. I thought they’d be the last ones standing.

It’s strange to watch this shift happen. The same people who once defended the ideology so fiercely are quietly stepping away. […]

But families like mine can’t move on. We don’t get to delete what happened. Our children were the ones experimented on. We’ve watched them be harmed — sometimes irreparably — by an ideology that told them to destroy themselves to find themselves. There’s no undoing that. There’s no returning to “before.”

For the people who once believed, it’s a phase they can walk away from. For us, it’s a lifelong loss.

They can move on. We can’t.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

A group of mothers are suffering. I am one of them.

My son is a sweet boy, a caring, gentle and sensitive boy. But everything changed since the day he turned into a different person who I do not recognize. His behaviour changed a couple of months before that day. I noticed significant and out of character behavioural changes from him. He limited his food intake and slept a lot during day time. He used a commanding tone when speaking to me. He tried to avoid conversation with the family.

I felt something wrong and started digging and digging. Then I found the cross-sex hormones in his room. It was a big shock. I had never noticed him having any issues or distress related to gender. When my husband and I tried to talk to him and tried to find out what was going on, he gave us the text book type of answer such as “This is what I want.” “I feel good.”, etc. When we asked why he wants to trans to a woman, his answer was so superficial. He talked about dressing in women’s clothes and wearing makeup. When we finally found a clinician who was willing to help him, our son left home and cut off contact with us.

That day was the darkest day in my life. Since then I lived in the hell.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #psycho pittparents.com

I lost my daughter to a cult.
And I may never get her back.
I have a son…don’t want one more—
so many issues to unpack.

My heart still sinks each moment when
she slides back into to choosing lies.
Oh, guide our daughter home again,
free from the pain of her disguise.

Renew her mind. Restore her soul.
Let her drink in your loving grace.
One day I’ll find my girl again,
who doesn’t hate her form and face.

We’ll take high tea in skirts and heels.
We’ll go and get our nails done.
We’ll shop and share our deepest dreams,
just like we did when she was young.

So, damn the broken, wicked ones
who lead our kids astray like sheep.
And may the millstones ‘round their necks
drag them down in the deepest seas.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

While mainstream culture insists this is about “identity” and “acceptance,” the truth emerging online is far darker.

On sites like Reddit, among trans communities themselves, countless posts now echo despair and confusion:

“The government is making it harder.”
“No one supports us anymore.”
“We feel left behind.”

These are not words of empowerment. They are cries of isolation. But isolation from whom, and why?

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True compassion is not about agreeing with every feeling. It is about loving enough to tell the truth. Real love does not affirm confusion. It guides with grace, offering a hand toward reality, not fantasy. The solution is not in more surgeries or hormones, but in restoring the heart, accepting the body, and finding purpose in the Creator, who made us male and female with intention, wisdom, and love.

Anonymous #ableist #conspiracy #dunning-kruger #transphobia pittparents.com

It’s really weird at my house. If an anthropologist were looking through the window and secretly observing my family, he would be very confused. Why does the father use a male name for the son while the mother uses a female name? And everyone in the family goes along with this, like it’s completely normal?

My gender-addled adult son has been trapped in the trans nightmare for about a year and a half now. He’s a textbook case of ROGD, an “on the spectrum” kid who thinks that his discomfort with himself and the rest of the world is because he’s born in the wrong body. What nonsense. Yet his mother and younger sister “support” him in his “journey”. I don’t. I am the father who loves him and wants what’s best for him, so I don’t affirm what he’s doing to himself. I stay close to him - he still lives at home - but I don’t go along with the new name, the new pronouns and language, any of it. Meanwhile he’s not working, not going to school, doesn’t get out much, and just seems to be stuck in the game of life.

… So in our household, my wife affirms, and I don’t. It’s a problem and it’s escalating. My wife winces every time I use my son’s birth name. “You’re hurting him.” she yells. “Why can’t you accept him the way he is?” I’m hurting him? I do accept him, as him, she doesn’t. No one can change their sex. My wife should know that. The last few months I’ve been watching the slow transformation of my once-handsome son into something else, I’m not sure what. He’s hurting himself in ways he probably doesn’t yet know. He’s getting sick on cross-sex hormones but won’t acknowledge that those hormones are the cause of his sickness. He occasionally sees the classic “disturbed, close female friend” (a one-time girlfriend who says she’s also trans), and she likes to give him manicures. Really? Does he realize she’s treating him like a damn dress-up doll? Probably not.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #fundie #transphobia pittparents.com

Against “Be Kind”


To my relatives who enable and celebrate my trans-identifying son and who have avoided me for years now:

I see your “Be Kind” posts on Facebook. The posts with a rainbow flag and other virtue signaling self-congratulating mottos and memes.

I see your posts of kitschy signs that say things like, “All I care about is your good intentions”. I guess you have forgotten the part about the road to Hell being paved with good intentions.

I see your photos posted of the wedding that you did not invite me to or even tell me about.

I see my estranged trans-identified son looking anxious and silent, covering his face with his long hair.

I can see how ill he looks from far away. It breaks my heart that he has cut off contact with us, his parents who love him and want him to be strong.

But you, dear relatives, can see only how Virtuous and Woke you are, what a Good Person you are for Being Kind. Because you have such Good Intentions.

You call my son by a female name. You pretend he is a girl, a woman, and tell him how brave he is. You express sympathy and tell him what awful parents he has.

My son is responsible for his mistakes; he chose to proceed with the trans-identification and medical transition. But it didn’t help that you embraced the opportunity to show how Nice and Considerate you are by celebrating his poor thinking and decline.

You see, you are so Kind. You gather ill people like my son around you because they make you look so Special and Caring.

When my son was younger, before the trans-identification, you had little interest in him. Why would you? What is interesting about a smart, strong, successful young man who does not require your Kindness to succeed.

So much better for you to have the opportunity to Be Kind.

Brenda Childs #ableist #conspiracy pittparents.com

I think the whole autism thing was a plan all along. They knew exactly how to create autism and they could create a whole lot of vulnerable people that they could draw into the cult. I say they not really knowing exactly who "they" are, but I do believe that whoever they are, they will soon be gone because as my son said in the lyrics he created in his friend's studio he called "Burn in Hell Jezebel", the anger has boiled to the top. I'm trying to make this video go viral, because that name of Jezebel has come up frequently over the past few years. I don't pretend to understand it all but we have been through hell at my house as have most people here, and I have to believe that the end to this is near!

Sonia Banovac #transphobia pittparents.com

Yes I want the vultures to pay for their crimes to humanity For the harm that is being done to my child For the lie that he can be a woman, for the lie that depression stops with blockers and boobs and after that with surgeries I want the vultures to pay for mutilating children, teenagers, young adults. I want the vultures to pay for destroying families, mutilating beautiful perfect bodies without any remorse, without thinking that what they are doing could do more harm than good all because of money. I want the vultures to cry all the tears that I have cried for my child, every day. I want the vultures to feel the pain I feel to see my child suffering, believing a lie and telling me to leave him alone because I am ignorant and stupid. I want the vultures to pay for steeling my child 's love and respect for his parents.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #conspiracy pittparents.com

I have often thought about the last person to die in a war - the final soldiers killed as the Americans pulled out of Afghanistan or the final casualty before the end of World War II.

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To learn your son died for a cause can bring honor and some comfort. To learn they died needlessly, pointlessly, must create a spring of pain and anger that never ceases.

It feels like there is a shift in the wind this fall regarding gender ideology. Famous people are now admitting they had some doubts all along. My kid’s principal has finally agreed that secret pronoun forms are not such a good idea after all. Target has stopped promoting tucking swimsuits for little boys. There are still a few “Protect Trans Kids! Protect the Dolls!” posts popping up on my social media, but they seem to be limited to my most woke and clueless friends. My mainstream mom friends are taking deep breaths and keeping their mouths shut. That is a positive sign. I’ve got to believe that we’re swimming towards the surface of “Believe the Science” again: no one can change sex. Even if Trump’s executive orders are flipped in a few years, I don’t think the Democrats can tie themselves to this anti-woman and anti-LGB ideology again. Most Americans aren’t buying it anymore. The War is over: Trans lost, Reality won.

But I’m still thinking about these confused and vulnerable kids – the gay kids, the autistic kids, the lonely and isolated kids. […] Everyone has a neighbor, classmate, family member who has been caught up in this. What happens to them?

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Gender ideology is a con. Transitioning destroys lives – it does not save them. No one can or should claim they do not know. Only the zealots could argue that the battle is still being waged, and that sacrificing children is the appropriate thing to do.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

There are still a few “Protect Trans Kids! Protect the Dolls!” posts popping up on my social media, but they seem to be limited to my most woke and clueless friends. My mainstream mom friends are taking deep breaths and keeping their mouths shut. That is a positive sign. I’ve got to believe that we’re swimming towards the surface of “Believe the Science” again: no one can change sex. Even if Trump’s executive orders are flipped in a few years, I don’t think the Democrats can tie themselves to this anti-woman and anti-LGB ideology again. Most Americans aren’t buying it anymore. The War is over: Trans lost, Reality won.

But I’m still thinking about these confused and vulnerable kids – the gay kids, the autistic kids, the lonely and isolated kids. There are at least four girls in my daughter’s high school who are transitioned – two of them on testosterone. There are at least six more in our social circle who have medicalized, and another 14 I know of who have socially transitioned. Everyone has a neighbor, classmate, family member who has been caught up in this. What happens to them? I predict there will be a broader retreat from this mass psychosis, and many of these young people will learn to walk through the world carrying the physical scars and mental damage from this era. Like the generation of Vietnam Vets who ambled around my city during the 1970s and early 1980s – they will be the wounded victims of a pointless war.

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And yet – today I learned about Henry Gunther, the last soldier to die in World War I. He died charging a German roadblock on November 11, 1918, at 10:59 am - just one minute before the Armistice was to take effect. There was no delay in the news- Henry knew the Armistice was coming, it had been announced that morning. In fact, when he sprang up from his position, Henry’s commander ordered him to not charge. The German soldiers tried to wave him off. When Henry persisted and began to shoot at them, they returned fire. Henry had been obsessed and “determined to make good before his officers and fellow soldiers.” I doubt Henry’s family was comforted by his beliefs as they buried his body.

Who will be the final adolescent sacrificed to trans ideology?

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

My son, who we prayed with each night, came to believe that God had made a mistake by having him born in a boy’s body.

My son no longer believes in Jesus or in God.

My son now believes in a cultish trans ideology which he learned about online rather than believing his mom-who has all the best intentions for him based on true love.

My son, who will not consider any truth I speak to him because he has been told repeatedly by this cultish group that parents don't love trans kids, believes we will exile him from our home.

My son, who is now making up memories based on the thoughts and considerations being put there by this cult, has convinced himself that he really has loved girlish ways since he was young.

My son hates school now because he has to "hide who he really is" from his classmates because it’s a Christian school.

My son, who believes that no one will accept him the way he is, believes being female will solve all his problems.

My son hates his body and the way he looks.

My son, who is 14 years old now, shaves his legs and arms three or more times a week because he hates the male looking hair that grows there.

My son constantly wears oversize sweatshirts to hide his body, even sleeping in them in the summer heat so no one (not even his parents) sees his body.

My son cries when I try to speak to him about how he feels now.

My son, who cannot tell me exactly why he wants to be a girl, shows me propaganda such as bingo games and other stupid material, repeating what obviously he found on grooming sites.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

As I wrote in the previous email, my idea was to give my son a working vocabulary that could be used to describe gender ideology. I wanted him to first learn this vocabulary in other contexts, for example, while learning about cults or totalitarian regimes. I hoped that he would be able to make these connections himself, and eventually he did make them.

If you end up on the subject of the Holocaust, and even if not, the movie JoJo Rabbit is one of the best movies you can watch with a trans-identifying child. We watched it several times. My kids love it. It can be easily translated into being “about trans”, and I think it does affect their subconscious. JoJo is a little boy who wants to belong and he is a Nazi; his imaginary friend is Hitler himself… The ideology cripples him, literally, and yet he continues to believe, because it offers such an escape from the reality of war. All the while, his mother is in the Resistance Movement. “You are not a Nazi, JoJo, you are a little boy who likes to wear a uniform and wants to belong,” his mother says. What a perfect line!

alewifey #transphobia pittparents.com

And then there's the ••real•• reason for "transition" in pre-pubescent childhood: Because if you block a boy's puberty earlier, he might—for a limited time, anws—look more convincingly female-like for the predatory groomers who want him as a sex object. (Also why the groomers aren't clamoring with the same ferocity for the medical "transition" of pre-pubescent Girls, even though Girls are now 80 to 90 percent of all minors being "transitioned".)

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

Myles/Margot Lewis. Robert/Robin Westman. Tyler Robinson. These names have taken me to the keyboard and brought me to my knees. News of their actions has pierced my heart in ways I’m still searching to describe. And I’m not alone.

We’ve heard much about ROGD (Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria), especially in girls and in large part due to Abigail Shrier’s book, Irreversible Damage. But less has been written about the boys. We’ve seen drag queens and images of demented looking men, but the parents of many trans-identified kids have a different perspective. After our son came out in 2014, it soon became obvious there was a common thread in these boys.

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I must not fail to mention, some of these kids have been abused. Sometimes by the very people who were supposed to be protecting them. It is not a stretch for them to claim a trans identity and seek these communities as an escape and a place of safety. Tragically, many of these kids fall into further abuse.

I’m not suggesting that our son or anyone else’s is desiring another’s death but we know they have already chosen death to themselves. We know because we dare not use their “dead name.” With our son’s 10-year absence, I know next to nothing. I can only draw conclusions from the growing number who have escaped this madness, trying to find their way back to reality as best they can with the damage done. And I’m not suggesting these young men all have the potential to be shooters, but often parents have no idea what they are capable of because of the unrecognizable changes that have taken place. And this worries us.

I know only God is able to fully rescue them but I share this in hopes that I can help prevent all the quirky, sensitive sons out there from becoming one of these lost boys.

Grandma Eileen #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

The rainbow represents God's promise to the world that He will never destroy the earth again with water. Today, after a rainstorm when the sun is shining again, and a beautiful arched bow of colored hues can be seen - it is beautiful. But the trans ideology has ruined that beautiful rainbow and now I cringe whenever I see a rainbow - yes, even the one in the sky after a shower. My dear friend just lost her 10-year-old dog, and I bought her a sympathy card, but I made sure I did not reference the "rainbow bridge" because she has a son who believes he is trans. Mentioning the rainbow bridge to her would only have added more grief to her world because she is terrified that she will lose her son to this trans-cult. Rainbows can be found everywhere now and, in every store on children's clothing, toys, books, stickers, cards, backpacks, hair clips - it is a subtle way of influencing their young innocent minds. Children are growing up being conditioned to see any and all rainbow symbols and flags as something good. What was once something beautiful is now void of beauty and only causes pain. We know the truth about the trans lies.

Donna #homophobia #fundie pittparents.com

Let's add some clarification to this Liberal blather. The first rainbow flag was a promise and a firm warning to sinners, It first reminded Noah and his family of their salvation through water, from the complete and utter annihilation of sinners. It was a promise that God would never destroy the earth by flood again. It is also a sheathed warning. God never promised that the world and the wicked would never be destroyed again. The next time will be with fire.

StillHaveHope #transphobia #wingnut #fundie pittparents.com

I remember my trans son saying “oh, men are so icky” once during his process. I praised men at that point including his dad, whom I’m divorced from. But it didn’t change his mind, it was already ingrained cult thinking.

I also wake up and look thru photos of trans people involved in shootings thinking, Please God, don’t let me see his picture there. He told me a few times, he was a Pacifist, so that was some comfort. Of course that was a while ago and since then he’s called me every name in the book, Facist, Nazi, Trump lover, I can’t think of the other names, it must be my brain protecting me! I don’t even think I spelled faccist right I never even heard the word before these Liberals and trans groups started throwing it around. Gee, don’t they realize that if Trump was really a fascist he would have them all thrown in jail? There is no reasoning when they are consumed by this cult thinking so I have just backed off. I don’t speak to my son anymore. I don’t send him things. I don’t try to convince him. I just pray. I just pray that he’ll wake up someday and say, what have I done to myself because it’s he who did it to himself -Not me not his dad not his sister - is he who agreed to harm himself! I’m just at a loss as to what to do.

I blame the professionals. I’d like to see every one of them behind bars. Everyone who gave cross sex hormones to anybody or did a surgery on anybody should be behind bars forever Licenses revoked that’s the punishment they deserve for ruining a class of society that was our future!

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St Monica prayed for 17 years before St Augustine changed his wicked ways. He was a radical, had a baby out of wedlock, drank, ran around and ultra liberal highly intelligent man going against everything good of his time around 483 - he wasn’t a trans I don’t think it existed then but they still had people going astray against the normality of goodness. Finally his mother’s prayers paid off he came back to sanity and became a highly respected Saint of the Catholic Church!

Alexander Joseph Hamburger #transphobia #wingnut pittparents.com

We have to remove politicians who do not oppose transgenderism. It is not enough if a politician keeps quiet on this issue. We have to demand active opposition in order to get legislation changed. President Trump is taking a lot of heat at the federal level, criticizing his policy for women and girls in all federal funded institutions. We need similiar policy and legislation at state and local level, including schools and school and school boards.

Grandma Eileen #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

Virginia IS on the wrong side of history again, and Virginia is not alone. The day is coming when the truth will be believed about the trans-cult ideology lies and there will be many states, schools, organizations, companies, and famous people that will be on the wrong side of history, and we will NEVER forget what all of them have done to harm our children. Common sense is all it takes to understand that God does not make mistakes and put the wrong person in the wrong body! There are two sexes: male and female. To quote the late Charlie Kirk “The facts that there are only two genders; that transgenderism and gender “fluidity” are lies that hurt people and abuse kids..." Ironic that Charlie was shot and killed by a transgender influencer. Again, this shooter is on the wrong side of history!

Dorothy #transphobia pittparents.com

Though I try to move on and enjoy my life, my son has created an enormous hole for our family. As a father with two small sons, he has chosen a narcissistic delusion over family. That is not how he and his wife see it, but that is how I view it. He would happily be a part of our lives, but only if I support his delusion. Since I will not, we effectively do not see each other much. It is heartbreaking and completely contrary to how he was raised. It feels like a dark cloud settled over you and stayed. But, I am trying to move on with my life and I keep the hope that he may come back to us.

Grandma Eileen #transphobia pittparents.com

I am so worried about my 5-year-old granddaughter who just started Kindergarten. She wants to be a veterinarian...but she needs to complete the 12-years of secondary schooling first. Then onto a university. I hope and pray her schooling, studies, and training will go well and that she will not be harmed in any way. All of us sent our children to school thinking it was safe - I lived in Colorado when the tragic Columbine High School shootings happened. My daughter was in 3rd grade then, and there are still school shootings happening today over 25 years later! This trans ideology is far more frightening to me now because the bad guys could be teachers, counselors, coaches, and principles who think that the trans-cult lies are the truth.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

The “trans” iteration of the pride flag, and various other versions, seems to be replacing the original rainbow flag. A Google search returns that the progress pride flag represents the “marginalized LGBTQ+ community.” Perhaps the flag flyers have good intentions and are not aware that the revised flag might be divisive rather than unifying, and exclusive rather than inclusive, no matter how many new colored stripes and symbols are added. Maybe those who fly these flags do not intend to be disrespectful, yet displaying these flags seems to be about making an ideological or political statement, and many find that message offensive.

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In case you are outside of this charged ideological arena, here are a few details to understand. The LGB community was hijacked by the TQ+ folks and the rest of the ever-growing alphabet of add-ons, which linked itself, without permission or consent, to the LGB movement and its hard-won rights. […]

Kids are declaring new identities after being influenced by social media and internet content. A young person is a target if they feel angst, distress, confusion, or don’t fit in, and they are vulnerable to love bombing and promises of a better life if they take steps to alter or fix their “wrong” bodies. “Trans” and “Q+” seem to want the limelight now, and these gender identities have an aggressive activist agenda.

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Blaming the body for complex issues and ignoring underlying co-morbidities is encouraged and celebrated in the current edict issued by “trans” activists, with no questions or discussion allowed. Common sense, critical thinking, and independent thought are discouraged in the name of social justice or a new civil rights focus gone too far. So, the new “trans” and progress pride flags also represent the irreversible harm to the bodies and health of our youngest and most vulnerable kids and adults, and that is not cool or a symbol of virtue.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #psycho pittparents.com

We did not affirm our son’s trans identity. He later detransitioned and then took his own life. The parents of the recent school shooting in Minnesota may have affirmed their son and he took his life after killing two children and wounding 18 others. Can it still be argued that affirming is the best route for children?

When the police came to my place of work, I feared the worst. I knew it was about my son. I had always worried the other shoe could drop and his detransition was too good to be true. I worried my son had done something awful. He did, but only to himself, and left his family devastated. He did not take anyone with him. My son was never violent but cross-sex hormones mess with kids’ brains. Social transition also messes with their brains.

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We did not affirm our son but everyone around him did behind our backs, and at 18 he was able to get hormones. At our son’s funeral his best friend blamed us for his death because we did not affirm. His friend wanted the girl name on our son’s tombstone even though our son had gone back to using his birth name. This friend made the tragic loss of our son even worse, if that is possible.

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It’s time we help kids by ending the affirmation of the trans delusion. How many more kids need to take their lives and, perhaps, innocent children with them? It’s time to stop believing there are trans people. No one is trans. It is a mental illness and a huge medical scandal pushed on the vulnerable.

Grandma Eileen #transphobia #wingnut pittparents.com

That was a lot of information, and I found it alarming and disturbing. How can we possibly fight AI - it is everywhere? I demand transparency and accountability, but from who? The programmers? The millionaires supporting AI? Look at Big Pharma manufacturing all these drugs for the trans kids and making more money! Don't forget about the therapists who now have full schedules because of the trans kids and are making more money. And of course, the mighty surgeons who are benefiting from the trans kids by willingly mutilating their healthy bodies and are making more money. Money talks, it has power, and AI is now the next big money maker. Sometimes I feel like we are indeed in the end times - how can this world continue ignoring the facts by pretending that the trans-cult is acceptable? Mere men are now playing god, and using AI to make decisions, and answer questions, only to manipulate the human race and further lie to us? We are in deep trouble here.

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