“Nina: by trans logic. if it is deadname, then police need to be involved to investigate the person who killed and replaced....”
That’s not logic, that’s you adding unnecessary connotations to a word.
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand…
No. Plenty of ways for people to die without police involvement. Such as if they’re under a doctor’s care and their fate matches the doctor’s prognosis. MOSTLY this comes into play when an elderly person dies in long-term-care, but transition would also qualify.
“can there be a word more a stab to parents? i do not think so”
Then you’re a self-centered monster. I would suffer quite a bit to hear that my child is unhappy. Tortured. Uncomfortable. Finding their truth? Not so much.
"That's my beef with the whole, "would you rather have a trans child or a dead one?" Well basically this new persona has "Killed" my child as he supposedly no longer exists.”
This is not what ‘basically’ means. The person is still here, their persona is still here,they just answer to a different name and use a different bathroom. But if all you care about your child is his ability to use a urinal, then you lost them quite some time ago.
“Hearing the phrase deadname for the first time was absolutely a stab in the heart.”
Ummmmmmmmmmmmm… cool?
“ And they are ripping off the dead kid or a kid with sex knowledge/safe sex devices from the early aids decades”
Oh, sweetie, did YOU live a sheltered life.
"You have beautifully expressed the fight. It is not David versus Goliath. It is:
Mom versus Deadname.”
And WHY is that the nature of the fight? This is you rejecting everything about your offspring and the trauma they face, by withholding support and taking it as an attack on YOU!
“Behind "deadname" is not anyone's child. With that one word, the child is now belongs to THEM.”
They belong to and with people who accept them as they really are? What a concept.
