“[From FAQs: What happens if you get fingered and start to bleed?]”
I would suggest going to a doctor.
“This could definitely mean that the hymen has been broken ~ in other words, she has lost her virginity to a finger.”
That’s not what ‘virginity’ means.
“Her future husband has been cheated and so has she.”
They’re only cheated if this is something they expect or demand. You know, morons. I, on the other hand, did not marry my wife for her hymen. She had many fine qualities that drew my attention and which i was glad to share with my parents, sister, and anyone who would listen. But not ‘And she was intact!’
When she met my family, none of them (as far as I know) went back to the others and said, “And she’s intact!’ or ‘Sadly, she’s not intact.’ They complimented her in several respects.
My sister hung out with my fiance for an afternoon before the wedding, told my mom “N is cool. She’s smart, she’s witty, she’s got a great sense of humor, and if Keith gives her any shit, she can break him in half.’
“Please let her know that we are here for her. Please tell her to visit our website and to view and print The Lady's Pledge. If she has any questions about the Pledge please have her contact us.”
I hope she managed wihtout you.
“Please stress to her that she should be checked by a doctor.”
Ah. So she can go into the great big virgin database as ‘damaged.’
“Please tell her to stay away from any type of sexual activity because sexual activity and behavior of any type outside the boundaries of marriage will cause damage to her physically,”
Again, only if you value that specific tissue.
“mentally,”
I think you’re far more likely to screw her up mentally than sex is.
“emotionally,”
As above.
“spiritually,”
Depends on what she bases her spirituality on, though, doesn’t it? If she worships a fertility goddess, she probably won’t notice any harm from sex. YOUR sexist god who sees women as sex slaves and/or property, that might be different, but then you’re starting at a disadvantage anyway.
“and socially.”
Maybe if you fuck grown-ups, they don’t run to the playground to tell each other whose virginity they took.