Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #fundie

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

My son, who we prayed with each night, came to believe that God had made a mistake by having him born in a boy’s body.

My son no longer believes in Jesus or in God.

My son now believes in a cultish trans ideology which he learned about online rather than believing his mom-who has all the best intentions for him based on true love.

My son, who will not consider any truth I speak to him because he has been told repeatedly by this cultish group that parents don't love trans kids, believes we will exile him from our home.

My son, who is now making up memories based on the thoughts and considerations being put there by this cult, has convinced himself that he really has loved girlish ways since he was young.

My son hates school now because he has to "hide who he really is" from his classmates because it’s a Christian school.

My son, who believes that no one will accept him the way he is, believes being female will solve all his problems.

My son hates his body and the way he looks.

My son, who is 14 years old now, shaves his legs and arms three or more times a week because he hates the male looking hair that grows there.

My son constantly wears oversize sweatshirts to hide his body, even sleeping in them in the summer heat so no one (not even his parents) sees his body.

My son cries when I try to speak to him about how he feels now.

My son, who cannot tell me exactly why he wants to be a girl, shows me propaganda such as bingo games and other stupid material, repeating what obviously he found on grooming sites.

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‘My son, who we prayed with each night, came to believe that God had made a mistake by having him born in a boy’s body.

My son no longer believes in Jesus or in God.”
EITHER she believes in God, AND that god put her in a body with issues OR she doesn’t believe in god. Pick one.

“My son now believes in a cultish trans ideology which he learned about online rather than believing his mom-who has all the best intentions for him based on true love.”
I’m sure you tell yourself that your goals are best-intentioned, but everyone on PITT sure seems selfishly oriented to their own needs.

“My son, who will not consider any truth I speak to him because he has been told repeatedly by this cultish group that parents don't love trans kids, believes we will exile him from our home.”
This would be your daughter that you dead-name and dead-gender wilfully?

“My son, who is now making up memories based on the thoughts and considerations being put there by this cult, has convinced himself that he really has loved girlish ways since he was young.”
And you never noticed it, so she just HAS to be inventing it, not reevaluating her experiences in light of new information.

“My son hates school now because he has to "hide who he really is"”
You put ‘he’ in quote marks. I have to assume you’re talking more about your view than hers.

“My son, who believes that no one will accept him the way he is, believes being female will solve all his problems.”
It’s a start.

“My son hates his body and the way he looks.”
imagine that…

“My son, who is 14 years old now, shaves his legs and arms three or more times a week because he hates the male looking hair that grows there.”
Such a burden upon you.

“My son constantly wears oversize sweatshirts to hide his body, even sleeping in them in the summer heat so no one (not even his parents) sees his body.”
And this is intolerable because…?

“My son cries when I try to speak to him about how he feels now.”
Because YOU try to tell HER what she feels or should feel. I’d cry, too.

“My son, who cannot tell me exactly why he wants to be a girl,”
Yes. Your daughter IS a girl, doesn’t WANT TO BE a girl. No wonder the words are hard to find.

“shows me propaganda such as bingo games and other stupid material, repeating what obviously he found on grooming sites”
And you reject them out of hand as propaganda and wonder why she cries…?

12 mentions of “my”, 2 mentions of “I”.
That is a lot of self-worship, Mabel!

OP failed at parenting. That your kid thinks you'll exile her fir being trans is reflection on you

My! My! My! My! My! My! My! My! My!

Everything revolves around YOU, doesn’t it?

That poor child. Even if she ends up being another trans teenager runaway living on the streets, her parents will never accept that their stubborn cruelty is to blame.

*edited for clarity

Yet another PITT parent going ME ME ME ME and inisiting upon the belief that gender identity is all about at-birth genitals.

You’re ’God’s son wore a dress.

Whoops!

My son no longer believes in Jesus or in God.

My son now believes in a cultish trans ideology

Always funny hearing christians complaining about cults. They are a jumped up cult, they just do not like other ideologies influencing their captive audience. The fact that they call their base a flock should be a dead giveaway.

My son, who cannot tell me exactly why he wants to be a girl, shows me propaganda such as bingo games

I must be missing something here. “Bingo games”?? What the hell is this woman talking about? The thing where you got a card and some person yells out “O-72!″ or whatever and you yell “Bingo” because you got a line and that means you just won 20 bucks or something? That can’t be it, but that’s the only thing I’m thinking of.

@TheKingOfRhye #238644
“Bingo games”?? What the hell is this woman talking about?

I’m pretty sure they’re talking about bingo-like grids in the form of JPGs posted online, where you mark off intra-community stereotypes and common experiences. It’s sort of like a yes-no questionnaire with the answers displayed in grid form. Generally silly stuff, like how bisexuals stereotype themselves as not being able to sit on chairs properly, or non-binary people stereotype themselves as really liking frogs, which you probably wouldn’t know unless you were part of those communities. Though I would suspect that, if their kid actually showed them something like that, it would be a more serious version.