‘Homophobia’ is a silly word, I agree.
But the quotee also described homosexuality as a ‘lifestyle’, which is a classic giveaway. Then goes on with the ‘hate the sin, love the sinner’ style bullshit. Then basically says homosexuality is a path to destruction.
Regarding Malingspann’s example, an equally crass argument from the gay side would be “We must not hate Christians, we must be loving and accepting of them. But because we care about them so much, we must continually point out to them that they are in the grip of a life-destroying cult that has infected billions and threatens the existence of the world unless unchecked.”
For all I know, maybe there are a few homosexuals who do think that way. Like, a few dozen. As opposed to millions of Christians, and other religions.