Virgin until 30. Currently married for 37 years.
how do people even afford to move out if you dont have any experience to get a high paying job to afford everything
They don’t insist on a place with all the amenities that their parent’s house has. Your parents have been working and paying for their house for 20+ years, but you expect to get the same thing without working for it. Get a one-room or efficiency apartment and a job. Keep your expenses at a minimum to build a savings account and a credit rating. Only use a credit card for emergencies and pay it off as fast as you can. Eat a lot of ramen, pasta, rice and beans. Learn to cook so you don’t live on expensive prepackaged and frozen meals. Take a sandwich to work, instead of eating at fast food outlets or restaurants. Take public transportation, bike or walk to work. Work the night shift to get an extra couple of bucks every hour. Use the wifi at the local library; they also have cookbooks and how-to-live-on-a-budget books and resources that are free. Use a pay-as-you-go phone and use it only when necessary; don’t insist on a top-of-the-line G5 model. Shop at garage sales, Goodwill and other thrift shops for clothes, bedding, and furniture. Check craigslist and other community bulletin boards free section – it’s amazing what people throw away that is still usable. Ask your parents how they started out – you’ll be surprised at what they didn’t have, and not just because it was “olden times.” You want a larger place? You find one or more roommates and combine expenses. You realize you don’t need and can’t immediately afford everything you want. You need a roof over your head, enough food to keep you healthy, and a job. Anything else is a luxury.
People have moved out of their parent’s house and lived on their own for generations; you’re no different. Get off your ass and decide to do something. You’ll also meet people, and find that most women are looking for a man who can support himself and is working on improving. Stop viewing women as walking vaginas.