> If you take off your own clothes and hop on my dick but never *explicitly* say "yes" to sex, that's not rape. That's you being unable to control yourself. That's you being unable to speak up and nut up and say "eh, no thanks".
I was almost going to say “well, actually, that is also rape, just the other way round.”
And can I just say that it’s dickbags like this that make it particularly shitty for victims of female-on-male rape. Oh and the occasional guy that gets accused in the rare regret-after-getting-mutually-plastered scenario. (Which is still different from intentionally plying a woman with alcohol until she is unable to enforce her non-consent)