"I believe that one of the reasons they hate incel sites is because we have the intellectual freedom to think beyond such fake choices, question all authority and speak out."
Not really. No one cares that you are posting on a blog, forum, whatever. It's what you say.
When people say "the vast majority of incels who post or visit those sites are terrible people" it is not because of any freedom to think.
It's because you have a warped, horrific view on human sexuality, biology, and interpersonal relationships. It's because your collective wallowing pity party can turn violent. And then you gibbering cranks praise and fantasize about more and worse violence. You don't want a lover and partner, you want a braindead beautiful bimbo who is completely submissive and docile, and then rail against the concept that not only are you unlikely to get that, but you don't deserve it.
Even in this post, you both are advocating being able to rape children. People don't like you all because you are vile. Usually they hope you get help, but until you do, people will just think you're awful.