“… "guys who don't feel entitled to women don't feel bad about not being in a relationship" ...”
Entitled to women? So, guys who DO NOT see women as having the right to say ‘no’ to them? Yes, that’s crazy. I never once thought that women couldn’t turn me down, but disliked being alone.
“Are you kidding?”
No.
"Be happy with yourself."
Um, yes. If you’ve given up on dating, then don’t become a misogynistic hateful self-flagellating freak? Weird advice, but there you go…
"You have to love yourself before someone can love you."
STILL isn’t saying that you are or should be or should think you are entitled to a women.
"We're basically educated from birth that we're somehow broken if we're genuinely unhappy when we're not with someone.”
Can’t argue that. All the married and dating people telling us someone’s out there… Has to be…
“This has been extrapolated”
You mean what you’ve twisted it into. Not the same thing.
“into the concept that if you're not okay with being alone, that it's because of mental deficiency, and in men whenever mental deficiency is mentioned, accusations of misogyny follow.”
No, I think the concept is that you ONLY see women as a support and transport system for the vagina. See yourself as a person, not just an frustrated hard-on, and provide the same dignity to those around you.
“This is not made-up straw men.”
Yes, it is. You’re putting words in other people’s mouths to support how victimized you are.
“This is reality. Don't think so? Go to /r/relationships with a sockpuppet,”
So, go lie to people and see if their response matches Unconfidence’s prejudices?
“Don't say they caused your pain, don't say you deserve them, nothing like that.”
You do know that YOU don’t have to specifically say ‘i deserves me a women’ for other people to detect your entitlement issues, right?
And I already noted above that you’re interpreting things badly. So the experiment isn’t terribly useful.
“Do talk about how your negative opinion of who she did choose causes you to doubt your self worth.”
Yeah, that’s an issue. She didn’t choose you. That’s the end of your involvement with her. Ranting about what a loser the GUY WHO WON is doesn’t help your connection to reality.
“Do talk about how much it hurts to try so hard to be a good person and be unappreciated. Watch those "entitlement" comments start rolling in.”
Well, yes. That’s entitlement.
Be good because you’re a good person, not in hopes of a reward.
Like at work, do good because it’s your job, not because you hope Corporate notices you and promotes you. Because they won’t.
“Generally speaking, I cannot stand romanticism with people without "problems"”
Because you’re in a position to choose…
“It took me a long time to figure out that I love myself, for my own mental "problems", and don't want to "fix" them.”
I really doubt that you love yourself as much as you’re too lazy to want to fix them. You won’t change, therefore you don’t want to change. Kind of a sour-grapes thing.
“But because of one-size-fits-all "wisdom",”
See? You resist seeing any advice as applying to you, because then you’ll have to make the choice to follow it or not. But if it’s ‘stupid normie bullshit’ you can pat yourself on the back for ignoring it.