“In May of 2015, I published an article entitled “8 steps to confront your wife’s sexual refusal”.”
Eugh.
Um, Why confront? If she doesn’t want to, she doesn’t want to. If you sex her anyway, it’s rape.
“In this article I detailed 8 steps that Christian men could take in confronting sexual defraudment on the part of their wives.”
Um… ‘defraudment’ would be a dishonest attempt to withhold sex.
And, generally, if my wife says ‘no,’ i don’t ask why. I don’t need to know.
‘Confronting’ her over sex might lead to her telling a lie (because I have a headache) Or it might lead to WAY too much honesty (because I know what you did at the Shriner Convention, jackass.)
So this is just your first article setting you up to fail for this one.
“ Step 1 – Rebuke her privately”
Holy fuck is there any reason to rebuke your wife publicly?
She’d take my head off… Hopefully the one with my ears on.
“Step 2 – Stop taking her on dates or trips”
HAHAHAHA! She’d probably say thank you.
When we were dating, I took her to a fort on the Roman Wall in Britain. Cold, windy, rainy… Not her idea of fun.
“Step 3 – No unnecessary household upgrades”
I want to sell this place some day, they’re all necessary.
“Step 4 – Stop doing the little extra things”
Ah. You’re one of those men who want credit for doing anything like women’s work, huh? Wanting her to know you pissed the shit stains in the toilet and now it’s ‘clean.’
“Step 5 – Remove her funding”
That’s cute. My wife has her own job, her own paychecks, her own accounts. I would need a lawyer and a certification that she’s unable to control her own affairs to do this.
“Step 6 – Rebuke her before witnesses”
Yeah, that bit where you tell your buddies that you’re NOT getting the bare minimum on sex and it’s HER fault? Might want to think that one through.
“Step 7 – Bring her before the Church”
Well, she is Catholic, so the Pope says she has to sex me. But I’m atheist, so i can’t really do this without a lot of giggling. SOme of it mine…
“If your wife remains willfully defiant, yet she has not left you, it could be for a variety of reasons. She may not want to lose how she lives with you and she knows that after a divorce her lifestyle will be severely affected, and she does not want to deal with the consequences of divorce. Perhaps she may have some genuine care for you left as well as your children but she simply cannot see the error of her ways and will hold out indefinitely with the hope that one day you will fold and give her back the money, the dates, the trips, the house hold upgrades and she will not have been forced to change her ways.”
Dude, if the dates and trips and money are the ONLY reason she’s not divorcing me, then taking them away makes the inconvenience the better choice.
Sue me, keep the house and the kids, fuck whoever she wants, and keep her money PLUS the alimony.
You fantasize like an incel.
“You have the option to divorce her for her sexual immorality.”
NOT fucking you is NOT sexual immorality. That’s chastity. If she’s having NO sex, then she’s certainly not fucking anyone she’s not supposed to.
And, again, you’re telling your community that your wife won’t sex at you, no matter how much you beg. THink about that.