“If what you do in the bedroom affects how you treat women in daily life, it becomes my business. It’s every woman’s business. Plain and simple.”
Ah. So, if i’m into BDSM, and talk my partner into consenting with what I wish to do, or if she comes up with what she wants to do, you’re worried I’ll treat non-consenting adult women differently from the experience?
Well, then, if i treat YOU differently, we’re no longer discussing ‘between consenting adults,’ are we? We’re between asshole and victim.
It’s a whole different discussion. Like, I was in the military. If the conditions of deadly force were met, I would have tried to kill someone. I can sort of see that this affects how i treat other people, sort of. But what I did as a Nuclear Weapons Security Guard was my job. If i did it to you in Safeway, that’s assault. Doesn’t really cover my NWSG training, it’s an entirely different situation.