“Who wants to marry a girl who has had spiritual members added unto her?”
These members, are they in the room with us now?
“Or a girl marry a boy who has many members added unto him that was never intended?”
I should hope that any ‘members’ i picked up was by intent. Can it happen accidentally? I’d hate to have a spiritual trail behind me to hypothetical others…
“Think about it!”
I’m afraid that i will…
“Knowing that a girl has had sex with another, or with many others. How could the boy ever trust in her? How could his heart ever trust safely?”
Dude, she left the others. She chose me and stopped looking. I have literally trusted her with my life.
“What young lady would want to marry a man that has been sexually active with others.”
A confident one? A grown-up? A strong woman who’s got nothing to fear from my imaginary targets of affection, and she knows it?
It’s not like it’s all that difficult…
"Knowing that he could very well be thinking of them while he is looking at you!”
Why would you choose a jealous, insecure, childish partner?
“The Devil has really thrown a curve ball in this issue! He has made sex outside of marriage appealing and desirable.”
It’s never NOT been appealing and desirable, that’s the entire POINT.
Who wrestles with unappealing temptations?
"He has made it appear harmless. Nothing could be further from the Truth about Sex!”
Meh.
Yes, we’ve made promises to each other but there are exceptions. I asked my dad once, if he came home from work to find mom in bed with another man, what would he do. He said he’s been watching television for years, so instead of a half-hour of farcical sitcom mayhem, he’d just go out into the living room and wait for her to explain the situation.
Of course, he growled, it’d better be a DAMN good story.
“Young lady, and Young man, please do not join your body to another.”
Ah. Dry-fuck, gotcha.
“Obey God's Words, and you shall have a wonderful, exciting, pleasurable Marriage later on!”
You can’t guarantee that. Not everyone makes it just by obeying the 613 commandments.