“I (29F) am the most staunchly CF person most people in my life will ever meet.”
I don’t think that ‘child free’ really covers this shit.
The CF people I’ve met brag about having money to spend on trips to France (whether or not they ever go there), expensive hobbies, latest fashions… It’s a lifestyle choice. YOU, on the other hand, want to end all sex for every women because of the risk to women who aren’t even asking for you to protect them. This is more like Apocalypse Shakers Dominionism.
"I am VERY vocal about how I hate kids and see them as tools for the patriarchy only, how I consider pregnancy and childbirth domestic violence and how I pity every single pregnant woman/mom in existence, no matter how badly they thought or think they want that.”
How noble of you to completely disregard any other woman’s feelings on the matter, since you know so much better.
"How I believe that you can't love someone a woman and claim to want children from her, because why would you do that to someone you love?”
WITH her. I want children WITH her. Mostly because she wanted children. I wanted dogs. I wanted three dogs. She called me at work one day to tell me i was down to two dogs. Took me half an hour to realize she was announcing her pregnancy. Half an hour and two coworkers suggesting i might want to call her back…
"How I wholeheartedly do not care if we go extinct because the human species is surviving at the expense of women”
And some women are into that shit. How is it your place to decide for them?
“ and always did, and how fetuses are growing tumors to me because they have the same potential for harming me if not more.”
Harming you?
Are you saying you’ve been preggers?
How would that happen?
“How in an ideal world we would have separate CF everything (not just transport and restaurants, straight up separate city areas) and if I never run into another kid again it will be too soon.”
I’d like you to rewind this entire screed and replace kids with, oh, I dunno, blacks, Jews, women, veterans, the homeless… See if there’s ANY feelings of shame in that head of yours.
“I had to end the relationship with what would have otherwise been the live of my life because he, too, wanted to fucking breed. Every single interaction I am forced to have with kids is awkward and unpleasant for all parts involved.”
“Oh don't even get me started about that! How do you claim to be a feminist, and a radical one at that, yet you are so happy to lay down and get yourself ripped open alive for a man?”
Again, it might not be for The Man’s sake.