@Passerby #46505
maybe, I’m certainly the type that falls more in line of ‘believe the victims’ but to a point, namely evidence and when it happened, what she’s describing here just… well… its’ really hard to believe actually happened, as I’ve mentioned in my reply to Anon, this supposedly happened when she was 7 and he was 9… 9… not a teenager, a kid who more than likely did not know what sex was back then, that really stretches the limits of one’s belief really, in fact, it makes me more likely to believe both Adam and their mother when they mention that she apparently has done this sort of thing before (IE making familial life miserable by claiming erroneous things off and on, with the implication being she’s trying to get money out of them in as dickish a way imaginable) add to this the mention of mental illness of some kind, which don’t always form due to abuse and trauma but sheer bad luck and genetics, makes this all the least likely to have happened
Now granted stranger things has happened before, that’s just how this world works, weird shits happens, but I’m still going to be more in incline to believe Adam (and their mother) over her claims, at least until she provides clear evidence that isn’t fabricated in some way.
If not, that means this woman decided to take a movement meant to call awareness to sexual abuse in all level of society for her own selfish ends, which just paints her in a far more negative way then it does positive, if so, that more then likely means that Adam was also abused himself as well, as one of the few ways in which a kid at that age (especially in the 1970s) would have known about sex would have been the result of being sexually abused themselves by a much older authority figured, which itself opens up even more cans of worms or she’s lying about him abusing her in order to shield the real abuser (whoever that maybe) in a bizarre form of Stockholm syndrome. Either way is not good, either she’s a selfish frankly morally bankrupt woman, Adam being as much a victim as her, or she’s trying to protector her abuser out of a twisted sense of ‘love’ towards that person.