“women kept saying all men are evil? All men are trash?”
That’s actually very few of them, and they would be on FSTDT as well.
“The Chads hurt more women than incels and yet being an incel is worse?”
Because incels actually want to hurt women. Were they magically given the attributes and skills to become ‘Chads’, they would act like the worst of ‘Chads’ - for their boards describe women as animals, objects, toilets etc. You hear news stories about a jock who got away with high school rape because he was popular? That’s what incels would do, if they could.