This reminds me of being a teen and that was the 90s. Back then the busybodies like OP had tons of skeletons, were upset teens were different (nevermind teens like adults and children are goddamn individuals), and thus they forget the one important thing: you're not that important OP. She doen't dress for or answer to you. Fuck off. Your kind was irrelevant in the 90s, you're less relevant now.