“so what the fact is its not right”
According to you, maybe. But morality is not objective, we don’t all share the same outlook.
“people should not allowed to do things that are not right”
You don’t think premarital/extramarital sex is okay, you don’t have to have any. But I don’t have to get your permission to live my life.
“....and they deffinetly should be able to feel pain if they get pregnant”
I hope you some day pass a hard-boiled egg out your pee-pee.
“contraceptives should not be allowed...”
Again, you don’t have to use any. I didn’t ask your permission.