Did you actually *watch* The Matrix? (Well, all right, I haven’t, either...) The red pill isn’t just about seeing the world as it is. It’s also about taking up the standard of the Social Justice Paladin, because of how the world is.
And that’s before the film’s qualities about the trans experience.
About the only place I even remotely agree is the value of monogamy—and that with me is more about fear of love dilution. (And not understanding how you can have sexual loyalty to more than one person at once to begin with.) And my solution would be to find some way to render all humanity demisexual.
(I can see the red dots from you on me already, other lancers...)