MeToo was discussed constantly as was the proposed biological reality / determinism of sex roles [...] Many of the groups / individuals considered gender critical now were on the anti-feminist side of those debates. Now because they are against trans, they can blend in amongst feminists. When trans dies down, they will go back to those anti-feminist positions on women’s roles and be able to safely blame feminism for trans without worrying about losing support from women who are gender critical from a leftist / feminist perspective.
What I’m trying to say is, either way, when this ends, we will be blamed, by men and women.
So you belong to the group that's constantly talking about biological sex and sex roles and the differences in bodies, which means you must agree with the position that it's our bodies and chromosones and nothing else that dictates our behavior. Now you're saying that biological sex determinism is an anti-feminist stance to take? You can't have it both ways - either feminism is rooted in sex roles or it's not. And maybe you should think long and hard about what your position is doing, if all you need to do to infiltrate your supposedly feminist space is hate trans people hard enough.