@Skide #110047
So, a lesbian in the dating pool is cool with giving a trans partner prospect a shot.
Sadly, the incident he refers to is from a TERF rant where a lesbian who decided to give a trans woman a chance at a date went on to use the bad experience she had on her date as the reason to completely reject the idea of accepting trans women, even a little bit, ever again. It seems pretty clear based on the way she talked she didn't really think trans women were women to begin with, and I also think she poisoned her own perception of the date by coming into it thinking her date wasn't really a real woman.
Here's a sample from near the end:
Which really makes me wonder, when exactly was this person planning on telling me, anyway? I don’t think they had any idea I knew they were trans. I’m a LESBIAN. The fact that this person will not ever have a vagina is a dealbreaker. I like vaginas. I have fought very, very hard to be at a point in my life when I can fully express my love for vaginas. Every part of them, which includes things that cannot be imitated by surgery. Am I really a bigot for feeling this way? I feel like this is basically just saying that homosexual women are bigots for being homosexual. (Which, honesty, seems to be an incredibly common sentiment these days, even in “lesbian” communities.)
And BTW, random TERF, the answer is yes, you are a bigot for feeling that way.