Incels are far from kind, compassionate and forgiving.
Woman blanks you on the train... Incel fumes that she didn't give him the time of day and claims she must be a spoiled Stacey who sucks Chad's cock.
Incels fantasise about women suffering a whole number of gruesome and terrible fates ranging from being sold as produce, being killed or dying from diseases.
That ain't kindness or forgiveness. Then again self-awareness is never an Incel's strong suit. It's always someone else's fault.