Have any of these guys ever been in combat? Or in the armed forces at all? The National Guard? The police? A neighbourhood watch?Mall security?
Almost none of them have had their mettle tested in an unfriendly arena. They can't even stand that online, let alone in the real world. That's why their site disallows so many different kinds of users. They need their safe space.
As for their braggadocio, that's really all it is. They would never turn down the help of a female paramedic if they were injured badly in a car crash or were suffering some other life threatening condition. The nurses that run ICU, they wouldn't dare spurn them either. The real black pill here is that these so-called men generally want relationships but haven't the first clue as to how to develop one. Their entire lives are built around what they don't have. But will they take advice from people who do have relationships - and especially enduring ones? No. Their damned hubris won't allow it. They are desperately unhappy in large part because they choose to be.