I can’t believe the way people wilfully misunderstand the phrase ‘toxic masculinity’. (Not incels, since they wilfully misunderstand everything.)
Like, if you’re a man and you have a teenage daughter who you think is dating a dangerous bloke, talking it through with her, checking her suitor out yourself, making the relevant enquiries and if necessary alerting the relevant authorities, to say nothing of stepping in yourself if actions get extreme… that’s ‘healthy masculinity’. If you’re locking her up in her room or telling her she’s a stupid slut or ambushing the bloke before you’re sure what’s going on, then that’s what toxic masculinity is. It’s extremely bloody simple to understand, and these divs who shout “Now these scumbag liberals are saying masculinity is toxic!” are part of the problem.
Oh yeah, I’ve experienced a fair bit of toxic femininity as well, the difference is that there’s no danger that toxic femininity will ever kick my head in.