Ok, well... I'm just about to the end of my rope. Patience with speaking with people is causing my head to hurt. Seriously, it feels like I'm banging my head on a wall.
I use facebook to keep up with friends, etc, but whenever I see posts that are just in your face offensive and derogatory towards Christianity, I can't help but speak up.
Right now, what seems to be coming across as the smart alec meme's of flavor this year, is about the baking of cakes for gay weddings and the North Carolina bathroom debate.
So, I'll typically say, "It's not the people that these businesses are not willing to serve. It's the event."
NOBODY EVER SEEMS TO GET THE POINT!
I even give little analogies (because these folks claim they're Christian, some of them anyhow) which goes as follows. Should a Christian baker be forced to bake a cake celebrating a Satanic black mass? Should a Christian deli be forced to provide communion bread and wine to be used at a dinner party as appetizers, for nonbelievers who think it'd be a grand joke? Should a jewish baker be forced to make a cake for a KKK rally, celebrating their whatever?
THEY NEVER SEEM TO MAKE THE CONNECTION BETWEEN THESE PICTURES AND WHAT'S HAPPENING TO CHRISTIAN BAKERS/PHOTOGRAPHERS ETC., WHEN IT COMES TO GAY WEDDINGS.
All they claim is happening is discrimmination vs. the person.
I tell them (and this is 100% true), that I'm a nurse, I will help anyone. I don't care who they are, what the color of their skin is, what they do in their bedroom, and they can even curse me to my face and I'll still help them.
I'll cook them dinner, visit with them, be friends with them (I have gay friends).
But I won't (if it were my profession to do so) be forced to participate, provide goods for, promote, validate or confirm something that I think is morally WRONG! That being gay relationships and so called weddings.
So, for my troubles... what do I get..... I get called a bigot. Hate Monger. Intolerant.
It's the event that I won't support or affirm... not the people. And even with all of the above written out, they still act as if there's a huge disconnect between what I'm saying and what they're supporting.
Towards the end of a night in these types of discussions, I shake my head, and my thoughts immediately go to Romans 1:32, "... and although they know the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but also give hearty approval to those who practice them." Bold emphasis is mine.
In these last days, I guess I'm fighting a losing battle. But in my own way, Christ may be using me as a little bit of cultural pushback to the majority opinion of these days. The restrainer in me, doing a little restraining, if you will. But I don't see it doing any good. Like they're set in their ways.
So.... last night after being called a bigot for the 50th time, I wonder, should I keep doing this? It's almost a compulsion for me to speak up when I see these things. My wife thinks it's all stupid and I should just ignore it (she's a bit of a baby Christian that doesn't like to think on these things much). I tell her you have to take a stand at some point, but she doesn't see it as being now.
I can see how in the near future (VERY NEAR FUTURE), that anything we say in regards to morals will be labled hate speech. Physical persecution may not happen here in the U.S. until after the rapture, but I think Christian freedom to believe and speak our minds is going to be SEVERLY CURTAILED, which of course is it's own kind of persecution.
Just feeling down, because I just want to give a different point of view and stick up for my faith. But people for the most part seem rabidly anti-christian. Even those that claim that they themselves are Christian (these folks butcher the bible completely and don't know how to discern what they're reading, or even do the simplest things like reading in context).
Maybe I just need to step back and take a break.... but if I do that, am I backing out of a fight that needs to be fought?
Rant off.
Thoughts?