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Average Dad #transphobia #fundie #conspiracy pittparents.com

Watching that video interview just made me tear up some and feel such anger and hopelessness for Trans people and their families. PITT parents largely knew all the data was wrong and yes it was never made public, anything that went against Trans was banned, people were banned, lost jobs, etc... like Covid if they did not get the jab/agree with Trans. Yes, do no harm, and so much was thrown out the window and trampled on to rush as many people into Trans as possible, still happens today. As if living such a massive lie about yourself will ever amount to anything enlightening is such a blasphemy. Trans was pushed so hard because almost everyone was so excited about a new sexual fetish that porn fueled sick perverted men could push onto all of society is absolutely sick. Truly one of the worst mental and sexual illnesses ever pushed onto society. My heart is broken again for all of this madness and the destruction it has done. All of it was totally unneeded had more people, like during covid, said NO!!!!!!!!!! That video of that young man is soul crushing! Affirmation Care destroyed him! Sick Demonic Monsters did this to him! I am so angry, ugh!

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Again, unbeknownst to us, the college our son attended was quite liberal – left of Berkeley where my husband went to college. He started a rock band and wrote some amazing music! He really seemed to come into his own. We fully supported him and his band as we truly saw his talent.

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His band lost their drummer and ultimately found a new drummer who was transitioning from female to male. The band prided themselves as supporters of women’s rights and LBGTQ+ issues, and they soon had their “shtick”. I cautioned my son that he may want to reconsider this label if he really wants to get a career in music as this decision may limit the band’s appeal to a variety of audiences. My advice went unheeded. That was around the time he started to separate from our family.

Soon he showed up with painted nails. He had the LBGTQ+ flag hanging on the wall of his apartment. He pierced his ears and wore heart earrings – he told me he bought me the same earrings for my birthday so we could be “twins”. He brought a purse to an outing for my husband’s birthday with our daughter. The kicker was at a family dinner for my 60th birthday in 2024. My oldest brother asked me if my son’s band added a new girl member, as he had seen a recent video of a live performance. He said he thought she was really cute – and then realized it was our son dressed in drag.

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Like all parents in this nightmare, we grieve every holiday and birthday. I grit my teeth and smile as my mom friends share the joyful news of their children getting their dream jobs, getting married, having babies. There is a gaping wound in me where our son had been, and it doesn’t take much to reignite the pain.

PITT Parents #crackpot #elitist #transphobia pittparents.com

I may back up, but I won’t back down.
I’m back in the saddle, bouncin’ back into town.
I’ve been backing you up even as you back away,
but I’m no longer holdin’ back what I wanna say.
I’m a momma bear, baby; I ain’t gonna turn back.
So stop actin’ the fool and stop talkin’ smack.

You can’t back out of the deal you misread
or take back the propaganda that’s been swimmin’ in your head.
Back away from false accounts; remember how we care.
Back up your fake memories with what should be there.
Stop stabbin’ in the back the ones who love you most.
Just take a step back and self-diagnose.
If you won’t back away from these toxic lies,
I’ll stop holding back what I wanna let fly.

My love’s on the backburner, baby, that ain’t right.
I won’t go back on my word even if you backbite.
You know I got your back, baby. Now’s your chance
to turn back time and snap out of this trance.
Water off a duck’s back—that’s what this fight will be.
I’ll pat you on the back and forget you hated me.
You’re giving backseat driver, yapping at me what to do
but I’ve been livin’ for a minute and I’m comin’ back for you.

Sure, I want you back, baby, but my back’s against the wall,
so dial back your threats and tone down your gall.
Like the back of my hand, I know you oh so well.
I’ve been bendin’ over backwards to get outta this hell.
If I can’t get my girl back, I don’t know what I’ll do.
I got nothin’ to fall back on, no daughter without you.
I’ll be back to square one, back to the drawing board:
only photos to look back on and memories to hoard.

I promised to protect you and I’m coming back strong.
Cut back on self-hatred ‘cause you’re doing life wrong.
I know this drama dates way back to 2021,
but how ‘bout we back it up, pretend we’ve just begun?
Please dial back the Kool-Aid talk and back out of this cult.
I want you back for real, so come on and adult.

Mama Ain't Playin' #transphobia pittparents.com

[Reply to a clearly satirical article about trans youth having their cheeks replaced with exposed metal plates]

Has your daughter been evaluated for autism? Her story seems super autistic to me. OTOH, maybe this is where the trans movement crashes and burns as a youth craze. Furries and therians entering the scene should have been enough. But now, the robot-girl is very close to performing the so-called "right-wing meme" of "I identify as an attack helicopter!"

Suzan Z #transphobia pittparents.com

My son isn't that tall but nonetheless is very masculine in build. He also has super thick dark brown hair all over his body. What he looks like while dressing and acting like a so called woman is simply absurd. He is so clearly a large build man trying to pass. It breaks my heart in a zillion pieces. But in addition to his ridiculous appearance it makes me sad for how he could look if he accepted how he was born. He would be so handsome and pleasant looking. I haven't seen my son with a manly haircut in 10 years. His long unkempt hair is past his elbows. On the rare occasion he ties his hair back (like for his brother's wedding when he agreed to wear men clothes) I just get so emotional. Because on a superficial level ( I know its just hair) I have my son back a little. The emotions are so hard to express. This all is profoundly sad.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

The day started slowly. We arrived and I quickly noticed, though not consciously, a woman that I recognized but did not remember. She was tall, as are many of the girlfriends and wives of the men in my extended family, so I paid her no note. That was until I walked into the main room of the house and I saw someone else. Another woman, I thought at first, from behind, but then my son turned around. I recognized him immediately, even through the heavy makeup warping his looks. My heart dropped. I froze. He froze, like a deer in headlights, then, like a deer, he scurried away into the kitchen. I followed, not even bothering to alert my wife, who had not noticed him yet. In the kitchen I saw my son, with the “woman” I had seen earlier. Then I recognized him too, my son’s husband – his childhood boyfriend, also confused about his gender. My blood boiled. I went to them and they stopped their panicked conversation. I said their names, and their faces warped – my son’s in false sadness, his husband’s in fury.

I said that I missed them.
I said that my wife missed them.
I said they are still welcome with us.

They did not appreciate this. My son exploded. He had seen my PITT essay, had hated it and thought it was full of lies. I asked him to be kind. I reminded him that I am his father and it was a holiday. He went on a tirade saying he was a she, he was a lesbian, claiming I broke his “wife’s” trust, I broke his trust and closed by demanding respect including use of his chosen name and pronouns. He and his husband left and I rejoined my wife. She was angry at me for not telling her that her son was here, but she understood. She was hurt, too. Nobody, not one person who has not gone through this understands the pain that is felt by a parent of a “trans-identifying” kid.

Scarlet #conspiracy #crackpot #psycho #transphobia pittparents.com

my comment keeps getting deleted for some reason! let's try again...

what's so frustrating about this trans ideology discourse is that too many people are terrified to bring up that transgenderism was created by a particular group of people. look this up! transgenderism literally did not exist until the institute for sexual science was created by magnus hirschfeld in 1919, and this "institute" churned out book after book attempting to validate this disgusting ideology. it wasn't until 1933 when it was destroyed and its books were burned, and rightfully so. but unfortunately, the wrong sides triumphed after ww2, and this cancer that had been previously brought to the brink of extinction was allowed to flourish in the post-war wave of post-modern cultural marxism.

we need to stop being timid with our words and call them out. we need another wave of nationalism and fascism to stomp these disgusting pervs into the gutter and erase this blemish from society entirely, lest we allow our children to be corrupted by the slithering tentacles of cultural marxism. we MUST do what we can to secure the existence of our people and a future for our children.

Natalia #transphobia pittparents.com

This is why I no longer feel admiration for desisters or detransitioners. The fact that they desist doesn’t change how cruel they were to us when they were in the trans phase. We have warned them at length. The truth is they put us through hell. Most of us parents have expressed concern and worry about their cult and got severely punished for it *by them*. After the true horrors we have been put through I see desisters and detransitioners who are still very narcissistic, many of them still don’t respect their parents. Even Keira Bell refuses to speak to her mother. There’s this awful woman Appleyard who hasn’t spoken to her poor mother for 14 years. They have no idea the hell they have put us through. This cult turns them into evil people. I need to move on. I can’t continue living like this. I can’t continue waiting for my daughter to see sense. I must live my life now

Rachel #psycho #quack #transphobia pittparents.com

I would give anything if my son were 16 again. I don't care what it took. Pulling him out of school, taking away internet, phones, etc. I would find a way to let him know how precious and perfect he already was. You have two more years that she is still under your control. Even if I had to move away. I don't care where to, I would do it. I would do anything and everything it took to help them see that there is no such thing as "trans," even if I had to physically restrain him. Thats no different to me than keeping him from running into the street as a toddler. If their minds aren't mature enough to listen to reason, then they'll be treated as such. Treat this like her life depends on it, because it does.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Dear Elon - Welcome to the World's Worst Club

Since this essay was originally published in June of 2022, we can welcome several other celebrities with trans-identified kids to the club including, but not limited to: Charlize Theron, Robert De Niro, Dwyane Wade & Gabrielle Union, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, Liev Schreiber and Naomi Watts. What is it about chemically castrating children that is so appealing to so many parents? PITT parents would like to understand.

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Welcome. Welcome to the sanity portal. There is only one way into this and that is almost always through children - usually your own. It was only a matter of time before we started to hear about more children, and more high profile parents like you. Not "adult trans offspring of famous people" but your children - kids, youths, young adults with healthy bodies.

And so, knowing that you are a science-based thinker and, having heard some interviews and having seen you dance, I fully expect you to nerd out and apply your scientific critical appraisal skills to this topic of "trans kids". And if that is the case, then I am hoping you look beyond the more obvious 'expertise' that will throw itself in your path.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

We were deemed abusive because we did not want our son harmed by hormones and surgery. We wanted him to go into adulthood healthy. That was our abuse.

But, the way I see it, the abuse is the other way around. We—the parents—are being abused. We have tried to stay calm and loving to see if our son can figure out the real truth. Meanwhile, our son was granted permission to treat his parents badly by the teachers and counselors at school. Our parenting was undermined by our child thinking that his parents don’t know best. Who taught this to him? The state has decided to take over raising our child…but who will be there when this kind of action doesn’t go well when he’s an adult. That’s right—only us, his parents.

Today, at the graduation ceremony, this abusive school called out the girl name as he walked up to get his diploma. That was not the picture I had in mind when he started school. My husband and I couldn’t even clap. We sat quietly, stunned. The school took his name away from us too. The school put his girl name in the yearbook. Will he regret this one day? We couldn’t stop it. We, the parents have no voice.

distressed parent #transphobia #conspiracy pittparents.com

[Replying to the parent of a deceased transgender son]

And how utterly awful for your sons to eulogize your daughter with the incorrect pronouns. The "trans" horror preys on the family in insidious gut-wrenching ways. It's prompted me to consider the possibility of an outside evil force. Or maybe, humans just can be stupid and terrible. My bitterness is another aspect of what the "trans" horror does to people.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia #homophobia pittparents.com

I am speaking on behalf of those hundreds of thousands crying, bleeding, lamenting and voiceless parents who were kicked to the curb of the monstrous system, a hydra, that has many heads but is still the same - it eats children and destroys their parents, steals their innocence and childhood. Our dear beautiful children!

No matter where you are, we want you to know that despite powerful and influential people whose pockets are lined with money, their hands holding smartphones with useful phone numbers and power that they think is boundless, our love is what makes the sunshine and the earth move. We miss you every single day: your laughter, your tantrums, your saying yes and saying no, your first mama, your first tooth, your puberty and questions about this and that, our sleepless nights we do not regret the care we provided and joyful times we spent and tears we shed.

This has become a very cruel world with tons of people who have made it a profitable business to simply come and take a child for whichever reason: it does not really matter what they chose to accuse a parent of, be it anti-vax or non-affirming parent like your dad. We still find it very hurtful and unfair to have lived 15 years in sorrow and in happiness yet are going through this now. We know that the word has shifted very much. Yet we, as good and caring parents, have always tried to accommodate to new-fangled technologies like Roblox and Minecraft and Discord or the latest fads like Peppa Pig, Nickelodeon and Disney. But then came the woke, ‘pride’, and trans that poisoned every school, every college, university and every hospital.

Deborah #transphobia pittparents.com

I have often felt losing my beautiful daughter to the caricature of the “man” she has become is like losing her to death without being able to even have a funeral.. There is no safe place to mourn the loss - especially in CA where we live.. We’re expected to celebrate “his” bravery or we’d be called out as transphobes.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

I loved being his mom. I enjoyed raising him and felt so close to him. I loved him and I felt he loved me. We would have long talks, even friendly debates about things we saw differently. We played basketball together, watched Little Bear, went to the zoo, camping, picnics, bike rides, played games and had countless other special experiences that bonded and connected us. He was my little buddy.

Today, my heart is broken, my life is shattered. My boy is being erased by someone with a girl’s name. This new person has taken his place. “She” is different and not like my son at all. As transition has progressed, my son has faded away and slowly disappeared.

The face has changed; the voice is strange. Who is this person? “She” comes off as self-righteous and condescending. "She" is critical and accusatory. “She” pressures me to believe things I don’t believe and then calls me ignorant when I don’t conform. Is this normal and healthy? My precious, sweet boy is gone. I feel confused, bewildered, overwhelmed, and a profound sense of loss and grief.

Average Dad #conspiracy #crackpot #quack #transphobia pittparents.com

I learned from Stephanie Winn Some Therapist Podcast #223 The HIV Money Trail...that Open Societies aka George Soros and Bill Gates Foundation and USAID under Obama sent billions of dollars across the world accelerating Trans ideology under guise of "Harm Reduction". Trans is so destructive, I cannot think of anything more destructive that people do willingly to themselves like this, to me it is beyond terrible drug addiction, and Soros, Gates, USAID did this purposely is just outrageous. Listen to this podcast just infuriating...."Harm Reduction" another terrible idea that includes Drug addiction, Trans, AIDS, outrageous. And the messages are not, love your body as is, drugs are bad, promiscuous and unnatural sex acts may not be good for you, no, it is just the opposite!

Susan in Kansas #transphobia pittparents.com

I saw a Seinfeld “behind the scenes” interview on dvd where Jerry is wearing a pink/blue/white polo shirt years before trans anything. So jarring to me. It was just a regular shirt but now the colors and pattern are “triggering”. Also my grandson came over with a button toy I. Rainbow colors and it made me flinch. He’s a 2year old. He should be playing with a rainbow, but this insidious ideology is in my brain.

Indio #transphobia pittparents.com

My story started 12 years ago when my beloved husband was dying and our teenaged grandson brought us a little book that explained why "he had always felt different". It wasn't because he had been born to deficient, selfish unmarried parents, it wasn't because he was autistic, it wasn't because he had been abused by multiple stepparents and possibly by half-siblings. No, it was because "he was born in the wrong body." The psychologist who was treating two of his half-siblings had established that he, also, needed to transition to find the peace that he sought. "Buddy" is now 30 years old, and as far as I can discern is still living as a woman who plays games, has never held a job, or learned to drive and lives with his mother who works the system.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

I miss your carefree laughter, the one in the natural, male timbre you have practiced to banish, and vanquished with the help of wrong-sex hormones.

I miss being able to look at you without cringing. Your artificially hairless face, long unruly hair, clothing that helps you flaunt the bodily effects of hormones that were never supposed to be taken for life - and by males - are stark reminders that you have rejected what Nature bestowed upon you.

I miss being free to call you by the name we so lovingly gave you; the classic essence of it, the maleness of it, the meaning of it; the name you threw away in a process that took a signature and a postage stamp. The name that defined you more than just superficially. The name that represents your true identity - no matter what you, and your blind supporters may believe.

And because I am not free to use the name you were born with…I miss calling you by a name that isn’t an endearment - the default I must resort to using, and have, for the past five years.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

My life will never be the same because my heart now has a huge void in it, and it aches. This cult affected my nephew, and the ripple effect tore through my entire family. This evil cult steals the identities of our loved ones, changes them, devours them. Holidays, birthdays, and special occasions are brutal to the families left behind. There is no comfort, no peace. The emptiness is so prevalent it is suffocating.

From an accident 10 months ago, I am handicapped so I had groceries delivered to my home the other day and the delivery person was a trans MTF. I was not shocked, just heavy-hearted. This young man, who was trying his best to look and act like a female, had shoulder length hair pulled back into a ponytail, small breasts protruded through his colorful shirt, and he wore light pink nail polish. I wanted to say something – but what could I possibly say?

PITT Parents #pratt #quack #sexist #transphobia pittparents.com

Open your mind now and think your own thoughts;

stop parroting devious Instagram rot.

Can someone be born with the wrong DNA?

Will surgery sweep your confusion away?

And what if it’s fluid and you realize

you’re really a furry in human disguise?


Who will you marry and who will you date?

Do hot guys go out with small men named Kate?

I know that you’re certain and sure of yourself,

but what if this notion winds up on a shelf?

You’ll never convince me that you’re not a girl.

I’m macho compared to your pink princess pearls.


So, here’s what I desperately want you to see.

A girl’s the most glorious thing you can be.

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

Jalapenos are trans

Society INSISTS endlessly that the word “jalapeno” is pronounced “hall-uh-peen-yo”, even though all spelling rules and conventions would say that it SHOULD be pronounced “juh-lop-en-oh”. In much the same way, society insists that, not only can my estranged son become a woman, but that he ALREADY IS. This despite CENTURIES of tradition and language demonstrating the opposite - that he is a MAN and MALE and will always be A MAN and was once a BOY. Just the same, “jalapeno” is pronounced “juh-lop-en-oh” when speaking proper english.

However, just like everyone in society, even his own sister, now refers to my son as my daughter (when he is NOT!!). Even when at Wal-Mart when buying their Great Value brand of jalapenos (which do genuinely live up to their name of providing excellent flavor for a low cost, truly a great value), the woke cashiers still fearfully mispronounce it as “hall-uh-peen-yo”, despite speaking English, and not Spanish. This, just like “trans” is a collective societal delusion. It must end. Trans must end. I want my son back. I want my son back from transgenderism. I want my son back from cross-sex hormones. I want my son back from his woke university that groomed him to be trans. I want my son back from anarchism. I want my son back. I miss my son. I have not had one good day since he blocked me, and now even things that I used to love make me sad and angry. Can’t he see what he is doing to me?!

Look at me. I was once a loving father. Now I am reduced to philosophizing about peppers. The trans cult took my son, and the best I can hope for is that one day he will return to me. But I don’t know when. I don’t know if I can make it until then. But I will try. I will be here for my son, even if I need to cope by considering the philosophical implications of jalapenos.

I hope that this story can help other abandoned parents like me consider trans from another angle, and perhaps, for a while, give us an intellectual distraction from our estranged children. I, for one, am praying for ALL of our so-called “trans identifying” children to come back home, to come back to their loving parents.

Adri Mans #fundie #psycho #sexist #transphobia pittparents.com

Those doctors do not think they are kind. They don't care. As sooner we understand that the better. If it is necessary take him from the country and the computers (if it's possible go to China or a country that internet is high regulated). If he is older invite him for a vacation after organized everything. That is the way I will do it because fifteen years had passed and our children continue being harassed with all these new "ways" and we experienced a rise of the trans indoctrination. I was watching casually a movie the other day and I realized that a "she" was called "my son" by the Mother and "he" by the school principal. I recognize trans people just fine, and we have to do that, pay attention to the details. I was thinking that if the entertainment business and everything including video games and manga-anime used androgen and trans people as "normal" way of life, we are losing the battle. Immediately I stopped watching the movie, a thing we all can do when we recognized normalization of madness. It is different if the topic of the movie is the struggle of a confuse person regarding his or her acceptance of what she or he is, but outside that we don't need those characters in any action movie, or any movie at all, as another characters that also are now coming up in stories movies and don't add anything to the story line. Also I noticed that in ads, where men are cleaning and bathing the babies, of course men can do that if it is necessary as a woman can be a soldier but it is unrealistic that a woman can bit up a man in the same level of training. But I see that too, unrealistic scenes where I guess they want to "empower" women making women trying to be men and doing things that men are better at doing. That reminds me the daughter of one of my friend that got into the army because she wanted to be strong ( and she is) but very soon she realized that is not like in the movies. She was bitted a lot by men during practices and the army cannot do special treatment because you are a woman, that would be discriminatory so she learned soon enough her limitations, also she learned better ways to defend herself, extra techniques that men don't need to learn because of their strength. That is reality so let's keep it real every second. Yes! We are limited by nature and men cannot get pregnant!

Hippesq #transphobia pittparents.com

Sure, I occasionally indulge in the momentary fantasy of my daughter as a detransitioner, someone who came to her senses, and realized the whole attempt to play-act at being male is, at best, pointless folly, and, at worst, Guantanamo Bay level psychological and physical torture. But I don’t dwell in that place.

Besides, even thinking of my daughter as a detransitioner is still acknowledging that she’ll never not be someone touched by “trans,” just as an addict is always an addict. She’ll always be touched by trans - trans or detrans. I can no longer hope for my daughter to get out of this unscathed and just move on as if it never happened.

Average Dad #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

As PITT parents we share your pain and agony, trans is one of the worst things ever foisted onto society, forcing your mom and dad to call you wrong pronouns and a new name. Trans is to humanity what Islam is to Christianity and the broader society, calling what is good, evil, calling what is evil, good, not creative, not building, not striving, not empowerment, not bettering yourself or anyone else, just pure decay, destruction and death. All I can do is keep hope alive for my daughter and yours, as I walk this cursed, sad, broken hearted, lonely road, pretty much alone. It's truly unbelievable, unimaginable. God help us all!

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #psycho pittparents.com

[E]ven if we achieved total victory today—no new transings at any age, Nuremberg-style punishment for offenders, gender ideology in the trashcan—these successes won’t hide one brutal reality: we’ll still live in a world where thousands of young people have already been damaged. Those are our kids, trudging around like broken dolls, trying to make lives for themselves at age 20, 30, 40, and beyond—some alienated from loved ones, some haunting their families like a ghost. And don’t forget those who didn’t survive. Even with their likely shortened life expectancies, what will survivors do for the next year, decade, half-century? What will we do? How will we all live? Could history guide us in a post-trans era?

PITT Parents #transphobia #pratt pittparents.com

A Scene from “Planet Unhinged”

(This isn’t a real play, it’s one scene that I formulated in my mind to try to wrap my head around the absurdity of what is going on in our world. I’m sure you could think of other scenes.)

Mom, So-and-So is coming over tomorrow. Just so you know, she is trans-disabled. I told her she’d be safe here.”

“What do you mean? Is she actually disabled? What’s ‘trans-disabled’?”

“MOM! Don’t be so ignorant! She’s having her leg removed next month. She’s always known she was only supposed to have one leg but right now she still has both.”

“Good lord! Is her leg okay? Is she sick? Does she have cancer or something?”

“Yes, it’s fine. Geez. She just doesn’t identify as a person with two legs. Appendages exist on a spectrum, you know. Not everyone has two legs.” (Daughter rolls eyes sarcastically.)

“So, what do we have to do?”

“Well, she’ll need to park in the handicapped spot in front of our building. And right now she does have both legs, but she uses a wheelchair, like I said she’s having the left one removed next month, so we’ll need to arrange the furniture so she can get around the living room in her chair. You just need to kind of act like she only has one leg.”

“Can she walk?”

Daughter gasps.

“How can you even ask me that? I mean, how can you be so exclusionary and hateful?”

“I’m just trying to figure this out. Are her parents okay with this?”

“Well, I guess initially they were really upset but then she had a suicide attempt because she was so upset that nobody would affirm her trans-disabled identity, and the doctors finally talked some sense into them while she was in the hospital. She needs to be able to speak her truth, and if her parents can’t accept that she’ll just need to live somewhere else so she can get her surgery.”

“What if she changes her mind in a few years, and thinks she made a mistake by cutting her leg off?”

“MOM! Seriously! It’s called a ‘delimbination,’ not ‘cutting her leg off.’ That’s so offensive! And she’s not going to regret it. Besides, if she does, she can always get a prosthetic leg. It’s pretty much the same thing.”


Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

I woke up in a cold sweat from a nightmare. Then I remembered it wasn’t a nightmare, but my new reality these days. The anger washed over me like a cold wave. I got up and splashed some water on my face, drank some coffee, straightened my back, and prepared for another day of dueling with my thoughts.

[some childhood story about a ride-on train that wouldn't work "as promised”]

And now you live in the same frustrating place.

You believe the promises adults are selling you for their financial and societal gain. You believe when other kids say that their train runs perfectly, even though you can see with your own eyes it is a mess. You are too smart not to observe the pieces of their train falling. Yet you continue to believe the promises of teachers who say, ‘if you just can learn the instructions well enough, it will work.’ You believe the promises of doctors who say, ‘if you just put enough magic medicine in the engine, it will run just how you want it to.’ You believe if you work on it long enough, it will become a reality. You believe you can fix your own train.

Because mentally you are the exact age of your trauma, you stay working on that train.

What you can’t believe is the hard truth that dad says, “it just won’t work, son.” He sees you working and working on this train trying to make it something it is not and he hopes you will stop and redirect your efforts to something more productive. You can’t be swayed by mom making you your favorite dinner, pointing out to you there are other things in life to appreciate and look forward to. You can’t believe your siblings when they tell you that the train is really just a figment of your imagination and, even though they support you in your train endeavors, they really are hoping you will just give up on it and come outside to play.

Mom First #transphobia pittparents.com

Elon could end this, he hates it so much that it took his son away. How is it that he hasn’t donated millions to stop this? He hasn’t donated to organizations helping to testify in court or at school board meetings. I don’t believe he’s donated to lawyers doing pro bono cases for detransitioners. I don’t believe he’s donated to a detransition clinic. There are plenty of organizations Elon could have donated money to end this horrible idea faster. But I don’t believe he has as all these organizations fighting to stop it are in need of money.

If I had the funds Elon had I would donate. And then it hit me. Elon doesn’t care to stop this like I do.

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

On your phone, I didn’t know
Their lie it would grow.

Then in real life
The lie would cut like a knife.

They took your behind closed doors
And soon began the wars.

What they said, who knows-
I was told not to impose.

Your hand I could not hold,
Your heart now felt cold.

They said it was for you,
And I should believe it too.

I didn’t get a reason,
Only threats - and that I was a demon.

Questions they didn’t ask,
All while wearing masks.

I’m sorry I didn’t have the answers,
And I lost most of my manners.

I didn’t know the lies they told
I wish I never let go of my hold.

Your hand-it slipped away,
It felt like in just a day.

But I’m still here;
I’ll always be near.

I know more now.
Please forgive me somehow

For the things I should have never done,
And what I failed to do for you, my hun.

Love,
Mom

jigsawjj #transphobia pittparents.com

I carry the corpse of my son, the son he once was. Geeky, funny, talented. He could build anything. I also carry the corpse of who he could have been.

I carry the corpse of the old me, so naive and purpose driven. I see old pictures of her and feel nothing but pity. She doesn't know what's about to happen to her life and everyone she loves.

I carry the corpse of our old marriage. We were playful, forward-looking, project driven. We're still married, but it's not the same marriage. We've been forced to witness each other being hurt beyond comprehension.

I carry the corpses of all the relationships that have been broken or just faded away because of trans.

These corpses I carry everywhere I go and follow me with every task: to the grocery store, while gardening, going for a walk, meeting with "after" friends (who know nothing of my grief). On the outside, I suppose I look normal. Most days I go about my life carrying these corpses. (What choice do I have?) And then there are days, even 7.5 years later, where the weight is just too much. And the tears flow. And the anger screams out. And then I get up, corpses still clinging to me, and go on.

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

Frickin’ get me off this roller coaster’s big highs and lows.
I’m almost getting whiplash every time it stops and goes.
Every time her mood gets better, mine will quickly follow.
Every time she says dumb crap, my soul in pain will wallow.

“That guy is so dang hot, I think I’d like to marry him…
I believe that prancing ponies will be the next big thing.”
My mental health recuperates right there on the spot,
and hope shoots through my weary veins like COVID-19 shots.

But then she says she hates her body, and she hates her hair.
She chops her lovely locks off like my heart’s not even there.
She tries to rewrite history to fit her twisted script.
I feel that, as a parent, I am very ill-equipped.

But then she pulls a U-turn, and she turns ‘round on a dime,
and she reminds her mommy that she’s forever mine.
She kisses me and whispers that she loves her dad and me.
I hold her close and tell her that she will always be

our baby girl who dances, who loves Pinkie Pie and peach.
I remind her that her childhood dreams aren’t yet out of reach.
I say we’ll always love her, and we surely always will.
But get me off this dumb contraption and its cursed hills!

John Moore #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

Then the wooden stake through our hearts: Our daughter posted a photo of our femmed-up son, sitting next to granddaughter on social media, tagged with #auntie #nontraditional. My God, she did it. She corrupted our granddaughter with the transgenderist lie and marketed the venality online. Vice signaling.

God forgive them, for they know not what they do.

[...]

There is also hope. There are many ways God can intervene and heal this misery: The direct approach in which our son and daughter see the Guiding Light. Better yet, a massive exorcism of the entire transgenderist cult. Maybe the most realistic hope is that de-transitioning will gain serious traction and become the Current Thing. If this starts trending on that odious Instagram, perchance reality can reach our daughter’s heart and she will use her influence to bring our son home and allow our granddaughter back in our lives.

Brenda Childs #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

[Replying to the mother of a trans boy]

Hang in there....it is pure evil....and God is about to let us see Him deal with it publicly.....because these people worship the enemy....god's of sacrifice such as Moloch and this is one way they sacrifice children. It's very prevalent in Hollywood. People who just believe that it should be accepted are either a part of the problem or just greatly deceived. God sees our pain and we are doing the right thing by not giving into the lies of the enemy! Big things are coming and I believe God is going to fix it all!

PITT #transphobia #crackpot pittparents.com

With the rise of violent episodes perpetrated by trans-identified people, the long overdue concerns of the negative impact of chat platforms are finally being addressed. This matters to us because our son was groomed while in college and disappeared six months later, never to be seen by us again. I’m not suggesting our son is potentially dangerous but I have no doubt that there are certain people in his community who are.

When I asked our son who was helping him navigate this new identity, he mentioned Tumblr. Back in 2014, I was unaware of this platform, or any others, so I did a quick search and was overwhelmed by the threads I stumbled upon. I later learned that what happened to our son was called “grooming” and it runs rampant in these spaces, in social media messaging, and gaming. Herein lie a multitude of predators or peers that find other vulnerable kids, convincing them that they too are trans. I’ve recently learned this effort is called “cracking eggs.”

Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

It’s my youngest daughter’s 16th birthday tomorrow. What she really wants most for her birthday is testosterone. Because we’ve had this battle before, usually ending in tears for both of us, she doesn’t ask me for “T” for her birthday this year. Instead she settles for the other front runners on her list of things she wants most in the world:

1. Five Nights at Freddy’s collector figure set $99
2. A Five Nights at Freddy’s Pillow Pet (Foxy to be specific) $35
3. Athletic basketball shorts: Adidas. $25 (I’m guessing cuz they’re comfortable asf. And because they’re from the Boys section)

It’s the first year she hasn’t asked for silly putty or sparkly slime. Or Lego’s. Or stuffed animals. Although I feel like the foxy pillow pet kinda still counts.

I can only refer to her as “her” and “she” when I’m not around her. Or when I’m writing in my journal. Like now. But it always has to be “he” and “him” when I’m speaking to her/him. Or when I’m being observed/overheard by my ‘Little Hitler’ who will bring the hammer down on me swiftly and without room for error should I slip.

Karole #transphobia #homophobia #fundie pittparents.com

The in-God's-face-with-the-middle-finger started in earnest with three things: 1) the perversion of God's seven-color rainbow with the six-color LGBTQ rainbow 2) called Pride which God hates; 3) that celebrates behaviors that are in complete rejection of God's purpose in creating man and woman in the beginning and us individually now. Especially interesting to me is that Satan is, as always, mimicking what God does - he gives those captured by and sacrificed to his trans cult a new name. Their new name is Satan's name for them that identifies them as his. I can't verify this in Scripture, but I think calling them by their new name affirms and somehow strengthens Satan's power over them. My guess is that pagan/witchcraft/Satanism practice do that, but I don't know for sure. What I do know is that I no longer pray for deliverance of the trapped people I know by their new names.

Alexander Joseph Hamburger #transphobia #conspiracy #quack pittparents.com

New York Times has been critical of Robert F. Kennedy junior, attacking his character by calling him “fringe”, “conspiracy theorist”. Yet RFK Jr, along with Trump, have done good work to help end sex rejection procedures. Not the least of which has been exposing the dangers of vaccines, improving federal food guidelines, removing food additives, and researching autism. All these directly impact mental health and the current contagion that funnels children into the hands of trans groomers.