…Look, Paul, I’m an atheist myself. I don’t think “god” (whichever of the myriads of definitions of god you specifially may use) is real, but I do think god’s followers and the impact they have on our physical world are real. So if YOU start forcing your frankly inane superstitious beliefs on others, you have to start justifying those beliefs(*).
Like @KeithInc. said, if YOU want to force your belief of an all-powerful, all-knowing, & all-benevolent entity upon me, YOU’d have to explain why the world is still so crappy even with such a being. And for the record, I haven’t had much tragedy myself, but still think the world is shittier than it has any right to be.
(*)Beliefs like banning pornography or women’s rights, or ignoring scientific facts, or forcing capital punishment upon nonbelievers or such.