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What i've learned from cold approaching over 350 women

What i've learned from cold approaching over 350 women
Past 5-6 months I’ve probably cold approached around 300-400 girls

Things I've learned:

1. Cougars go for young men because they missed out on hypergamy at a young age. Due to FOMO (Fear of missing out)

2. Cold approaching women at college parties, Clubs is as easy as ever. I cant remember a time i got rejected once. I simply go up to her ask her whatever vibe i feel from her. They will never be angry or mad at you or turn you off. In fact women are more than willing to give you their snapchat if you ask. Ive learned that rejection comes from them giving you their social media but never opening your stories ONCE. they simply just used you for validation.

3. Location is very important part in where you cold approach you have a way better success rate @ parties, clubs, and bars but places like the grocery store, shopping, a park will catch a women off guard and she will be creeped out. But when you display high value she then will be interested to hear what else you have to say and honestly its not worth the effort i hate giving girls free validation and attention. my success rate at parties was 9/10. outside of that environment 2-3/10. Las Vegas is probably the easiest place in the world to game and cold approach. Law 4: Always say less than necessary

4. The cure to stop being a beta (which 85-90% of men in the USA suffer from) is to take action and boost your testosterone by lifting heavy ass weights 4-5x a week. Women are attracted to masculine as men are attracted to feminine women. So do whatever it takes to boost your test (I don't advice steroids or TRT). Eat healthy fats (avocados, grass fed beef, eggs, almonds, etc) lift, lift, lift, avoid soy, stop watching porn, and stop fapping everyday. Its proven fact that your testosterone gets a small boost when you stop fapping for a week. Before TRP i was 60% alpha 40% beta and how i cured my betaness was going to the gym 5-6x a week. Instead of being the average guy to make excuses and complain I went out and did the work and what i sowed i reaped. Law 25: Re-create yourself

5. As i got more experience it became very very easy to spot out damaged goods, alpha widows, and BPD. These girls are the empty ones who post nudes or sexual pics on social media or are constantly seeking validation to fill the emptiness. These girls are usually the ones with tattoos, wear lots of make up (to hide the insecurities), wear tight clothes and try to reveal as much as possible, the bigger the hoop earning the bigger the hoe, they give you the thousand cock stare, they have piercings outside of their ears, they talk about their exes, they post on social media EVERYDAY. Damage pair bond is real and its affecting the younger generation more than ever and its because everything is become accepted and apps like tinder dont help, Hollywood music artist like Cardi B & Nicki Minaj promote the dominate female and how being a whore is how to get ahead. The divorce rate in the last 10 years is up 60% and its only going to grow higher.

6. Men SMV doesn't peak till 40. I'm in my mid 20s and i know that if i was in my early 20s i wouldn't be able to have this much success due to my facial features (women like masclinality) so my advice to the young men out here know you are super blessed to discover TRP at a young age. As you see i approach this many women and i dont feel anything special about it. Just like how rich people say money doesnt bring you happiness its the same with women. I didnt find a wife or someone who can raise my kids so i gained nothing out of this. So focus on becoming your best version of yourself, try out monk mode, hit the gym, read as much as you can, learn the stock market and cryptocurrency cycles. When you go out and have fun dont just game girls go out and befriend bros. read as much of the TRP as you can, find a spiritual life, and find balance. Dont rely on anything like drugs,alcohol,women to bring you happiness because its all temporary. Law 29: Plan all the way to the end

7. Young women are more damaged as ever. Pick your poison 1 Hot 2 Single 3 Sane. You can only pick 2

8. If you meet a girl and make plans with her and she flakes ghost her and dont even bother watching her stories or trying to get in contact with her and watch her hamster spin. If she sees youre high value she will hit you back up (FOMO). this works especially with high ego, low attention span millennial girls. (Law 8: Make other people come to you – use bait if necessary)

9. When your friends or others see your success with women they will start treating you like a god. But they are just using you for what you can provide and offer(clout chasers). Dont be confused and think they are your friends they are your enemy. (Crab in a bucket) Drop your loser friends (beta males) Low-T attitudes are contagious. Being friends with emasculated men that are pussy-whipped and passive is toxic. The same goes for your friends that do nothing but drink beer and watch sports highlights on the weekends. You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with, and high-T men have high-T friends Law 2: Never put too much trust in friends, learn to use enemies

10. Women are more attracted to you when they see you with other girls. It hamsters in their brain what does she see in him? I don’t really know how to put this in words but it’s true

Please don't forget to read Part 1 I commented it below.

My background and stats. African/Caribbean.. in my mid 20s, Live in the liberal SF Bay Area, 6'0..

To those asking how do i know i approach this much? My snapchat stories went from 40 views to 300s and majority of the people i added were females.

PLEASE PLEASE READ 48 LAWS OF POWER. Become the Machiavellian women desire. Jesus Christ is King! Happy holidays to you and your family!

(u/[deleted])
Does anyone else here think that Beards are some sort in-your-face reclamation of white masculinity? It's all the rage these days...

Sure, beards come and go. It's the law of fashion. But how much of it do you think is influenced by the current climate? The current climate is that China is rising in power. Yellow Peril has always been a thing, but it sure has been given a lot more attention this year.

So is the recent trend of white men donning beards a racial thing? Is it to mock Asian men while at the same time, show dominance over Brown men who get called "Terrists" if they grow one?

What do you guys think?

([deleted])
Beards are becoming more popular because white people want to go back to a "better" time. More rustic styles are becoming the norm for the same reason. And movies like "The Revenant" are extremely popular. It is a fantasy they sell to white america. They cant build a fire and wouldnt know the difference between a 12 gauge and 30-06 but they can look rustic and pretend they are frontiersmen or something.

(racismisformorons)
Yes, absolutely.
I noticed this as well and posted about it a year ago under a throwaway:
https://np.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/3erm34/has_anyone_noticed_how_even_hipalternative_images/
To save a click, here it is:
Inspired by that terrible Buzzfeed page 'proving' that Asians (all 4.427 billion of them) can too meet white standards of masculinity, I wanted to point out how even images of cool or hip masculinity are exclusively filled by white men.

This is interesting to me, because it shows that the Other (i.e., non-white men), are not even portrayed in culturally alternative images of masculinity. That is, these alternative fashions constitute an Other that is not an Other, to put it philosophically. While these fashions are posed as being outside the mainstream to give them part of their allure and edge (to an extent - my guess is that they are becoming more popular), they are not associated with any persons outside the white mainstream (East Asians, Indians, etc.).

This could be understood as another instance of how whiteness dominates all discourses, but these cases are pernicious because of the presence and history of these fashions in places outside the West such as Japan.

Consider 'manbuns' (a word I'm embarrassed to use). The manbun is just the contemporary American vocabulary for "chonmage", the topknot hairstyle worn by Samurai. This hairstyle dates back several centuries in Japan, and yet, its history and popularity among a class of Japanese warriors is a historical irrelevance. White men wear manbuns, period. Have you seen an Asian man as the image of masculinity in any discussion about manbuns?

Consider beards. The bearded man, as adored among audiences, is a white man. Despite the fact one can literally search for images on Google using queries such as "Japanese beard", "Korean beard", "Chinese beard", "Indian beard", non white men do not feature in any of the media of the beard frenzy in America. It is not uncommon for me to read someone writing online that "Asians can't grow beards" or "I've never seen an Asian with a beard". This, despite the fact that a 5 second search on the Internet will prove otherwise. However, this is irrelevant. In this discourse of masculinity and beards, Asians CAN'T have beards, which is the more interesting observation, no matter how many terrible Buzzfeed articles are created. Take a look at the images of the beards on display on the Bristlr Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Bristlr All white men. Are there any brown men with beards on display in these media? Of course not. Persons of color literally do not exist as desirable images of masculinity in the cultural imagination of those who curate these media. To them, it would be like bringing up random animals such as giraffes or baboons as worthy of inclusion - a prima facie nonsensical and unthinkable suggestion.

Tattoos are pretty universal. Yet, the images of tattooed, sexy masculine men are always white. Again, despite the fact that groups in different cultures (the Yakuza in Japan: http://blog-cdn.tattoodo.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/yakuza_2.jpg?09b2aa , the Maori in New Zealand: http://zealandtattoo.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/maori-tribe-face-tattoo-300x199.jpg ) feature men (who are probably much more dangerous than a hipster fashion model) bearing tattoos of intricate design and symbolic significance.

Is this really surprising? Sadly, no. But I believe it's important to see what is really being said when certain features/fashions are said to be desirable. It's not the features/fashions in themselves, but the boundary of whiteness they reaffirm and exclude non-white persons from.

(the0clean0slate)
Definitely. When I see a beard fanatic, who is really forcing the creation of beauty standard where more beard is better and they try to shame the one with less, I just see a clever white supremacist.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BQ4A60Yl7Pi/

https://www.instagram.com/p/BP8_ywRB0kW/

https://www.instagram.com/p/BNDj5CJBdkh/

Cringe. It is a bunch of grown men trying to feel superior because they grow more hair on their chin, with no purpose at all.

We should create a tan club and do the same thing. Talk about how unmanly it is to not have tanned skin. Brag about how my skin is tanner than yours. Darker the better. Paler skin on a man is inferior. But we aren't racist, you know.

Whiteys figured out another way to create an exclusionary masculinity value spectrum. Be vigilant.

Also, the reason why they have more beard is just because they convert more of their testosterone to DHT, which has no use at all, other than getting prostate cancer, getting bald, growing hair on the chin. It is useless. It is literally just a genetic evolutionary way of faking a higher testosterone signal than you actually have. You know Asians are the actual ones with highest T. Whites actually have the lowest.

(blublas)

So is the recent trend of white men donning beards a racial thing? Is it to mock Asian men while at the same time, show dominance over Brown men who get called "Terrists" if they grow one? What do you guys think?

I would say your interpretation is in accord with other analysis we can make on the facial features that are seen as positive.

Sorry if I can't provide further reflexions, in my defence I do lack data to make a point here.

(cookiehead333)
White boys grow beards to look more masculine, to compensate for the emasculation by feminism and Blacks. Same thing for the prevalence of tattoos last 10 years or so.

(KhanHohii)
I noticed it started after September 11th when many Marines and U.S. soldiers entered Iraq and Afghanistan. They had news reports where these Marines and Special Force started growing beard to try to fit in with the locals. From then on the rage of growing full beard became popular.

I guess a majority of the American youths started to copy soldiers came back from these wars with that style and every hipsters want to copy that. Trying to show their toughness and masculinity.

Also the 300 movie was also the catalyst. The movie was about the masculinity of the West conquered the feminine Persia.

http://www.gstatic.com/tv/thumb/movieposters/163191/p163191_p_v8_aa.jpg

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/db/f9/3e/dbf93e6b82b86c16e2d860ce10daebfb.jpg