...you understand that's the problem, right? The entire reason it's disordered and not "normal" is that the focus of their purpose is the sexuality to the exclusion of other things. It's why under pressure, they get more degenerate and not more "normal". It's why they turn a blind eye to the predators in their midst. It's why they think it's an injustice to in any way curtail their sexual activities. "Normal" people accept limitations on their sexuality all the damn time. America is pretty damn prudish in this regard with both legal and cultural restrictions on our sexuality from censorship to indecency statutes. The things "normal" people do stay in the bedroom or in closed circles. And that ignores that your sexuality is a distant second or third on the priority list.

The worst part is that it's a multi-faceted problem that intersects with the failure modes of "normal" people as well. Incels share the same problem with the alphabet people and share the same problems with the entirely depraved or either side of this issue.

There is a reason sexual immorality has been such a big problem for humanity. In all its forms it is highly corruptive and corrosive to social cohesion and trust, let alone to individuals. So, to be fair to the alphabet people, this problem is not unique to them and I don't hold that much animosity toward individual alphabet people... until their shit touches me or mine. However, I hold anyone in contempt that let's their degeneracy effect me or mine.

So to be frank, this problem isn't really about alphabet people at all. They're just in the way when we, as a society, try to limit this utterly destructive aspect of the human condition.