This is how I see it
Men desperately want to be so valuable that women desire them so much that they would move mountains to procreate with them.
They realize that the opposite is true, that women find them so disgusting they would instead move mountains not to procreate with them.
Men see this as the ultimate betrayal, and a complete rejection of their entire existence. He rectifies the situation by raping her instead, knowing full well she finds him and what he does to her revolting on a level comparable to death. A man raping a woman is punishment for her not raping him. He takes for himself a woman’s life force that he felt she was unfairly given and he was unfairly denied. He ruins/defiles/annihilates her to create justice out of her initial injustice (of simply existing as a woman)
If you understand how this works literally every psychosexual issue they have makes sense. This is how they can paint themselves as the victims of women’s sexualities, in that she unfairly owns the life force that he himself lacks and is helplessly required to pursue. How they can think this while knowing their presence is so horrible that every woman is ruined in the worst way imaginable through his contact, which escalates infinitely as his contact increases.
A male is a semi-self-aware parasite who hates that he depends on his host to thrive, knows she is ruined whenever he takes her blood and how she hates him for it, and enacts his revenge on the situation itself by stabbing her even more severely, even more frequently, in even more hosts that have blood left to be drained. It’s a very sick cycle and why misogyny escalates like a nuclear chain reaction, unlike any other form of hatred. There’s few to no racists who hate other races of men like they do women, how sadistically and compulsively they seek to punish and take from them both physically and psychologically.
They are raped by their own existence and wish women would rape them to save them, but because she won’t, he rapes the world.